When She Says “Let’s Be Friends…”

when a woman says, let’s be friends… it’s like your best friend saying, i don’t wanna be friends with you, but we can be associates lol, really??
it sucks, it sucks big time, it sucks the big one, but she’s only giving you what she’s experiencing inside, around you at that given moment.. it’s not a thing like a brick wall in a hallway that can only fit your body, it’s just a state that she’s in.. when in rome, do as the natives do.. and everything that happens in cancun stays in cancun.. take her where she needs to be, in order for her to give you what you want… we live more in the world inside, than we do the world outside anyway. =)

You hit the nail on the head. good video

so what do you actually say, whats a good response to this?

Love the way give it a thought, “mhmmmm…let me think that through…I’ll get back with you…” absolute genius!!!

What seminar was this anyway? Im curious to know.

She: “let’s just be friends”. She then watches for my reaction.

I roll my eye balls back, pull my head back and up, inhale slowly and deeply. THEN put on a great posture, let a hugh grin spead on my face, breath a sigh of relieve, look her straight in the eye and say:

Me: “Like wow Debbie. This turned out so different than I thought. I know we are not really close friends, so I won’t tell you about the girl I met, two weeks last, that told me it was ok to get together again, because after we had gotten together the first time, she had told her boyfriend that it was over between them. Then I found out otherwise…that was weird and I told her so. We talked awhile, then she asks me if it’s still on between us…like fucking no way…and she pretends to get all teary eyes when I tell her that MY TRUTH IS more important than getting IN YOUR PANTS DEBBIE. So then I tell her “can we just be friends” in kinda the same tone of voice you used when you said you just wanted to be my friend. And she says YES. This is so sweet. I have two new girl friends in as many days. And with you, it was even easier. Like I didn’t even have to FUCK YOU. DEBBIE…you have no idea how hard it is to really get close to you, as a guy friend, without having to make you cum first. Hey Debbie, come up to the pub tomorrow night. I want you meet my wingman Frank. I know that a lot of girls ask a guy to be their friend when they decide they have not been thinking enough about what it might be like to having a good strong orgasm with them. But I don’t give a Jonnie quick fuck which it is, cause I’m just thrilled to imagine exchanging a hot fun time with all that sex and different positions stuff getting our way. You are different than I thought Debbie. How cool is this. Gotta go. I’ll be at the pub about 7:00p. Bring a friend, but no boyfriend cheaters allowed. I don’t go for that loose stuff unless YOU’RE REALLY INTO IT”.

She will listen to you, because she does not want you to disrespect her behind her back. And if she thinks it is a put-on, she will show up at the pub, for sure, just to find out.

A few month ago, I started writting pattern language down and rehearsing it. Now I actually do it in the field.

Women don’t say that to me. The last woman I went on a formal date with (almost a year ago) said, “I don’t want to be your friend now that I’ve thought about you in the other way.” I guess I was making a lame-ass attempt for FWB. The last woman I slept with (this year at least, but total AFC path to get there) just says, “Don’t be a stranger.” And, “Always good to hear from you.”

Haha. A girl rejected me last month, so I told her “Okay, let’s just be friends then.” And went on treating her exactly the same way as before I asked her out, now she won’t talk to me. Oh well, my life is none the poorer for that. (Yes, if I’d mastered Speed Seduction before hand I’d have done a million things differently no doubt, but like Edison said I’ve just discovered a 100,010th way to not get laid.)

I told another friend that she’s useless to me since she has a boyfriend, so we might as well just be friends last night.