Show Women Curiosity About These Four Areas And Watch Them Open Up To You

Dear Seeker of Success,

There are four areas of a woman’s life you can get really curious about:

Contribution, Connection, Construction, and Craving.

I call them the 4 Cs.

When Sarging, here’s how they come together.

The first “C” is where she is finding her sense of Contribution. Where does she find her sense that she is contributing to a cause that’s greater than her own individual personal life?

For people, that can be a sports team. She’s not really contributing, but she feels that way. She feels she’s contributing to the Lakers or the Celtics by being such an awesome fan. She feels she is actually helping her team win. It’s where she finds her contribution.

The second “C” is Connection. Where does she find her sense of connecting with something other than herself? That can overlap the contribution. It can be her connection to nature or sense of wonder. Where is she finding connection in her life?

The third “C” is Construction. What is she working toward? What is she working on? Is she going to school? Is she working on recording an album? Is she trying to lose weight? What is the goal she is working toward or on?

The fourth and final “C” is Craving. What is she craving or longing for in her life when she wants to indulge? What need is being suppressed, or properly met? What does she want more of?

Those are the Four Cs.

From each one of those, you can ask questions and get curious. Once she gives you the answer, you can spin in memorized pattern language along with her answer. It amplifies the response she gives you.

Heck, You Can Even Use This As
A Language Pattern – Here’s How!

You can say to her, “I heard this thing about the 4 Cs. You can tell a lot about people by learning their 4 Cs. One of the C’s is connection. Where does the person find that sense that you’re feeling a really great connection, the kind of connection you want more of now, Debbie? For me it’s this…”

You can relate something.

Then ask, “How about you? Where do you think you find your connection?”

She’ll give you answers.

Feed her answers back and incorporate embedded commands and suggestion.

Use her personal trance words.

Look for her anchors and responses you can anchor.

Go from there.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. RELATED: How To Use The Power Of GENUINE Vulnerability To Paradoxically Be Profoundly “Alpha”.

Forget that Alpha male crap you read about; this is totally different and anyone can do it, right now, no matter what your previous experience!