Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
If you’re sitting there today, on Saturday afternoon, trying to get motor-vated to take on the world with all your great knowledge about women, yet finding yourself worried you’ll draw a blank when you’re face-to-face with a woman, this one’s for you.
Could it be coming from within your overall personality?
Meaning: the part of your personality that, up until this moment, has demanded a guarantee and has viewed you as someone who can’t do things unless it’s guaranteed, is the very thing that’s been blocking you?
It is the single, number one biggest systemic barrier for so many smart guys out there.
Once you get rid of that, once you drop that, once you tame that, everything is going to flow more easily for you.
I’m willing to bet this has been part of your overall personality. Up until now, you’ve had a very risk averse personality. You’ve avoided taking risks. You’ve gone for things that are certain. To that extent, it’s really constricted and restricted your personality.
One of the reasons you’ve been stuck up until now is you’ve been aiming at the wrong thing. You’ve been trying to squeeze results through your old personality. That’s a very narrow funnel. It doesn’t matter how much water you pour into a narrow funnel, it’s only going to be able to take so much.
Here’s where doing a little ritual would be useful. When you program in some mischievous shenanigan energy into what you do with women, you’re going to do a lot better.
If you combine willingness to take a risk, even though you don’t know what’s going to happen, with some of that shenanigan, tongue-in-cheek, let’s-go-have-some-fun energy, you’re going to make some huge strides.
This is as much about you expanding your personality in terms of your willingness to step forward even if you’re not, and your system by which you test the boundaries of reality.
Do you talk to yourself in your head, or do you actually go out and try things?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Speed Seduction® 3.0 is so powerful, you don’t need to be an expert in the rendition of it for you to do really well with women.
If you do one-fifth of it right, with the right attitude, willingness to risk, the right fun, shenanigan energy and a good strategy for learning from what you’ve done, you’re going to go really far.
Mighty and benevolent Cloud of Wisdom-drops…etc…
Your oldest and yet-avid follower/acolyte has had some fun lately…yessss.
More coming and yet to come, thank you. Am developing more of my own themes, etc…and having FUN. After all, it’s a lot like war…get surrounded and not ALL of them will get away…
How’s your self? dorsal physiology more comfortable?…it is my hope, my lips to God’s ears…
I’m grateful and glad of you, guru…since getting your basic course all those years ago, life’s been a smorgasboard of sexual provender,
and lately I’ve discovered I’m not quite as old as I thought…
all the best to you and yours and your associates…Leslie
This has been huge for me lately. I won’t mention the competition, but a friend of mine sent me an e-book after telling me stories of his own shenanigans, which I found out were write out of the book, and it’s completely turned my experience around finally “getting” what the put-on is all about.
The first time I tried it a girl asked me what I do and I asked if she’s heard of Calvin Cline. Then I said I do some underwear modeling for them. Then I said really I mostly do the “before” pictures for weight loss infomercials and I use a little extra hair gel on my ass to really make really it stick out more.
And for me this really dovetails nicely with the previous post about religious girls. Up until recently, I basically resisted doing a put-on because it felt like lying and I wasted a tremendous amount of energy getting angry at women for “lying” to me (when I wanted to lie with them – funny how that selective morality works).
Today I stopped at Subway and had this debate with myself over whether I should bring in a book in that I’m be reading (Terry Pratchett) even though I know I’m not going to read while eating a sub with both hands and feel dorky about reading in a restaurant on Saturday afternoon but finally just said what then hell, it isn’t dangerous and it makes me uncomfortable in a harmless way so that’s worth doing.
On the way out a carload of girls drove by and honked, smiling and waving and the guy driving said (hopefully repeating what the girls in the back were saying!), “You are so hot!” Odd. A year ago I would have gotten angry at the “insult”. Now I just say, “Odd”…
And the thing that really opened the door was when my friend (who I met at the 2011 Chicago seminar – discount for that plug???) first started telling me these hilarious stories and I’m saying, “yeah, I used to do that kind of nonsense in college (before the Bad Relationships)” and told him a few stories of my own…
I’m going to recharge my beliefs and then go out to do some things, and see what happens. It’s going to be fun.