Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’ve said it many times before, but it bears repeating because it keeps coming up:
Speed Seduction® is not merely a collection of word-for-word pickup lines and language patterns.
You won’t succeed simply by memorizing patterns and using them word for word when you approach and Sarge.
It is a set of tools and resources that you adapt to each unique situation with each unique woman…
…because no two women are the same – nor are two situations.
On the other hand, we have men who refuse to use language patterns, claiming any woman will “see right through that” and (yes I’ve been told this) “only a bimbo would fall for that crap.”
OH, REALLY NOW???
(Boy, that pisses me off.)
Okay: once you approach a woman and get her attention, there are a few basic transitions from opening that get you to the point where seduction language patterns feel like regular, ordinary conversation even as they transform her love canal into a gushing flood zone.
The key: introduce something that REQUIRES her active involvement. This is a test to see how open she is.
You can:
1) Offer a quiz, game, etc like the Snack quiz, Twin Brothers, Roller/folder/tosser(another new one) etc. Play with her answers.
2) Ask a question that captures and leads her imagination like “So if you could go anywhere, and money and time were no object…”
Here is a new one, “Is there something you do that you do so well and enjoy so much, that time just flies by? What is it?”
Listen for her answer, then say, “Really… tell me more… what do you like best about it?”
3) Prime the pump by starting with a small bit of a pattern, say “Discovery Channel” and see how she participates, responds. DON’T DO THE FULL PATTERN without her offering some kind of response or you’ll fall into the “guy reciting lame pick-up lines” trap.
4) Engage her in a conversation about something in the environment that you are both able to observe: people watching together is a good
one. Or something beautiful or interesting; an art museum, park, etc offer good possibilities.
5) Offer an intuition/observation about her.
Why, And How, Smart Women
Will Love This
Again: what I DON’T recommend is that you launch into a full blown recitation of a canned pattern.
At this early phase, you want to test for her willingness to participate, her curiosity, how she offers compliance as part of her wanting to learn more. You also want to gather information about her that you can utilize, feed back.
Now, I’ve just shown you how to transition from opening, and what’s more, I’ve shown you how to figure out if an intelligent, sophisticated woman of the world will respond to language patterns – even (perhaps ESPECIALLY) when she knows full well what the hell you’re up to.
Who f@@king knows? She just might be thinking to herself, “Ok, at least this guy is trying to be original. Now I’m curious to see how he works it.”
You have her attention. SO USE IT.
The women are waiting. Now what in Leah’s leotard are you waiting FOR?
Peace,
RJ
P.S. This systematic approach for transitioning from opening is what you’ll pick up as you work your way through Speed Seduction®. Claim your instant online access now and start picking it up.
Made some notes where I try to get an overview of the structure of speed seduction. This blog post sends me back to them so I can revise and update. Good stuff!
Another great bit of advice Sir. Why wont you use an actress or a woman with her permission to actually show us how it’s done. I hear it works from a lot of people but just like in learning the language of “Signing” for deaf people,every great teacher actually shows how that language is spoken…or rather signed. I feel as if im in a sign language course being taught only by being shown pictures of each letter. Come on man, I’ve been studying SS for over 3 years now, been using Unstoppable confidance for over a year and a half, I have women checking out my cock all day long but I’m farther away from the kootchie now than ever (it seems.)
Hi guy’s and gals,
If there’s one thing im sure of its,
In your pursuit to be successful with women your going to be caught/noticed being successful with women.
It’s a bum deal so if you really can’t handle that then you’re not serious. Stop.
Get caught. Get noticed. Get successful.
A good one.
where can the twin brothers and Snack quiz be found?
2 girls have subtly told me the patterns i used on them sounded memorized even after using it after 2 or 3 previous conversations and never as an opener. Funny enough it still worked cos they enjoyed it from the way there eyes lit up and i still got me some pink abundance afterwards. I wonder is it that these 2 girls were smarter than the others or what? I have this bad habit of trying to recite many patterns word for word even though the vocabulary might be too much, for this part of the world Africa. I just have an irrational feeling that i have to nail it perfectly word for word for it to be more effective even though now i know this is not the case. I always meet girls in parties and gatherings and i use it ONLY when i think the conversation is going down or i am running out of things to say and i want make an impression by creating a state/feeling in her. The results are pretty good. They work even when i dont deliver them as smoothly as i would like. I have not yet bought a product from this site before because i am a skeptic and all i learn about the speed seduction technology is through an e-book i copied from a friend in college and through this newsletter which i sometimes read, but i am still seeing nice results. Keep up the good work man.
i have no doubt this works – and it is a foundation on which anyone can build