Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
Merry Fukking X-mas and listen up:
There is NO Santa.
And there is no such thing as a “soul mate”.
Now listen: on my member’s only Yahoo group, one of the students wrote about his break up with a girl he thought was his “soul mate”. And how, in fact, in retrospect, she really had very few of the qualities he actually looks for in a partner.
Speaking to you as someone who is a fan of crypto-zoology-the study of unknown creatures like Big Foot, the Loch Ness Monster, Moth Man, etc-I can tell you that while some folks say they have seen what look like Yeti foot-prints and living Tasmanian Tigers, no one has every actually spotted tracks or droppings from the wholly mythological creature, “the soul mate”.
My friends who are hopeless romantics, cover your eyes: there ain’t no such critter.
Do people experience feelings of connection, deep compatibility? Sure. Are these experiences likely partially a matter of millions of years of evolutionary mechanisms that cause us to form pair bonds? Almost certainly.
But much of our experiences of “love” and “soul mates” and other nonsense is due to the social programming/romantic mythology that has been pounded into our heads from infancy, right up to the present day.
If you think your experiences in these areas of life are wholly and only “natural” and “genuine” and “authentic”, think again. They are also shaped by the mythology and expectations that media and peers have perpetuated.
The Speed Seduction(R) Difference
Listen: one of the major differences between Speed Seduction(R) and the other “systems” out there is that SS requires you to examine the filters, beliefs, ideas, responses that have been clouding your judgment and shaping your outcomes with women in ways that do NOT serve you.
De-hypnotizing yourself from useless social constructs(and your own bad habits) is a huge part of being radically successful-in radically getting out of your own way-in this area of life.
One of the other good benefits is that this kind of deep level freedom to choose your responses, attitudes and beliefs is very sexy, in and of itself.
So, if you want to learn more about this, I suggest you check out the chance to learn with me live Jan 22, 23 and 24 in Los Angeles. I guarantee you will never be able to think the same dumb ways!
Peace, and piece,
RJ
P.S. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own personal mythology, that you create, as long as it serves you and you realize it’s only a filter for fun. Personally, I love Pippi Longstocking. Can’t get enough of them Swedish Girls!
