Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of the most powerful “side effects” of mastering your girl-getting game is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible.
Reminds me of a Sarge report I got from a student not too long ago about how my teachings not only got him the girl, but also saved him from getting his head caved in!
You heard it here first: Speed Seduction® is a life-saver – literally!
Join me for a moment as we explore…
How The “Boyfriend Destroyer” Pattern Got Him The Girl…
Then Sargy Persuasion Kept Him From Getting Destroyed…
By The Boyfriend!
Here’s what happened. A student of mine was on the phone with another student of mine, then next thing you know, he sees some guy come charging into his apartment (without knocking) DEMANDING to speak with his roommate.
My student put the phone down and dealt with this confrontation with this intruder, who is screaming and yelling and about to start tearing the place up…
My student manages to persuade this guy to wait outside while he gets his roommate, then gets back to his phone call. Things cooled off for a minute… then next thing you know, the intruder is back… and angrier than ever. Charges right past my student and goes to his roommate’s door and starts pounding on the door, saying “Get out here so I can kick your f@@king a@@ RIGHT NOW you lousy son of a….”
So my student sets the phone down again, gets the intruder to slow down just a bit, and says to the intruder, “Stop and imagine how you would feel if someone were to force their way into your home. Wouldn’t you want them to be cool and go outside?”
It was like magic. The angry boyfriend instantly chilled out and was easily led outside. Crisis diffused!
Why Was This Intruder So Flippin’ Angry??
Here’s what happened: my student’s roommate was banging this angry guy’s girlfriend (she told him she was single… what my student’s roommate should do about this lying chick is another story)… and she was in his room AT THAT MOMENT. The boyfriend put two and two together and followed her there, then sat outside for awhile getting good and pissed off before bounding up to destroy this “boyfriend destroyer” who was making his chick.
My student made strategic use of suggestions and embedded commands to diffuse the situation and lead the intruder’s imagination… outside. Go back up and read what my student told this angry boyfriend and tell me how many commands and suggestions you find. See how this works?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Moral of the story: see what happens when you have Sargy, persuasive power? It becomes a reservoir of knowledge you can draw upon at-will, whenever necessary or desired, anytime, anyplace, anywhere.
hi ross,
and thanks for the report. it seems like your student actually resolved this confusing situation with the lieing chick and her intruder in a very subtle but effective way.
best wishes,
henryco
Hey Ross,
Great story…I remember using this kind of language left and right when I first found your material.
Anyway….I’m curious….was the guy banging the girl friend using Speed Seduction to seduce her? 😀
Now that would have been something 🙂
Yamamoto – yes he was. Both the guy who was banging the chick, and his roommate who saved the day, were students…not only did it get him ass, but it saved his ass!
Stop and imagine how you would feel if someone were to force
their way into your home. Wouldn’t you want them to be cool
and go outside?
Stop, Imagine, feel, Be cool, Go outside.
In addition the SS student is commanding the boy friend to
“do a left brain (conscious, analytic) search” to specify
meanings for “someone”, “their”, and “them”;
in essence, a command to “go in a trance”.
Note the presuppositions; complementary of the boyfriend
The SS student recognizes the boyfriend as a highly capable
person that has the ability to perform complex tasks.
The SS student gives the boyfriend credit for being able
to “consider options” in a stressful situation.
The two direct commands, “stop” and “imagine” are both
actions that the boyfriend probably very much wanted to do;
things his girlfriend would tell him to do.
I train in martial arts and was wondering if there are some good tips for dealing with confrontations, either to difuse them or to create an opening in the fight to take the guy out?
Confucius, the chinese thinker, would say: “If anyone entered my house like this i would probably put a .40 to persuade him and embed some hot olives into his head…”, but the way this student did, is much more ellegant 🙂
It never ceases to shock me how wacko guys will get for a girl…what causes this?
Breaking and entering is a major felony, has to be a few years in the slammer
Hey Ross! I’m university of windsor student, who’s pretty much an anti-social, because I feel that I don’t have a car, and I don’t want to waste my time walking to the club and get no hot girls at all. Do you do any seminars around Windsor, Ontario or even around San Francisco, California(Since my brother lives there)?