Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of my coaching clients reported some approach anxiety.
There had been a time when he could basically approach any woman, anytime, anywhere. Whether or not things worked out, he wouldn’t be phased.
Then it all changed dramatically.
Turns out it changed because two women reacted to him badly and threw him off his game in a very profound way.
That’s right.
The reactions of two women threw him so far off his game, he cut himself off from his entire 96 year supply of women.
Girl-Getting Game-Killer #1:
The Screaming Shrew
My student approached a woman and within moments she just went ballistic.
She yelled, “Who the f*** do you think you are?” right in the middle of a coffee shop. Everybody turned around. I didn’t run away from it. Her friend came around a little bit when I wouldn’t leave. She said, “I can’t believe you’ve stood here for this long.” My big fear is having a girl draw attention to it and make a big scene.
What you need to understand is that she made herself look like an idiot in that situation.
No one has the right to be that verbally abusive to someone who gives them a compliment. She’s a deeply f***ed-up human – plain and simple.
I could give reasons for her behavior all day long, but they don’t matter, so I won’t.
Those reasons have nothing to do with you.
Her reaction to you, therefore, has nothing to do with you.
Are You Going To Let HER
Cock-Block You?
She would be the last person that I would want to control who I approach and how I approach them. I’m not going to give someone that sick that kind of power over me. In fact, the more sick they are, the less power I’m going to give them.
Sometimes you just have to stand up to other people’s bullying and say, “No f***ing way. You’re not going to tell me how I live my life and what I do with it. That’s not happening.”
That was a momentarily unpleasant experience, and that’s all it was. Refuse to have any other meaning.
Do You Think It Could Possibly
Get Any Worse?
Meet me back here tomorrow when I reveal the other incident that was, in terms of his girl-getting game, even worse.
Yes, it’s possible.
We’ll get to the bottom of it.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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wow “I can’t believe you’ve stood here for this long.” she was pissed that he waited too long to compliment?
why is it that the most toxic people are the most hell bent on controlling others?
@Harry because misery loves company. The point is, this happens to many guys. Then they stop Sarging out of wondering what they did wrong. Her reaction probably has nothing to do with him, is my point.