Dear Seeker of Success,
About 3 hours ago, someone spit on my whip.
Now, let me explain.
“Whip” is urban slang for “car”. As in automobile.
(There is a lesson in this that will improve your poon pounding percentage, so bear with me.)
Here is what happened:
As I was driving in my SAAB 9-3 (yes, I know, I know, I have a thing for Swedish stuff) a guy who must have been in his late sixties who was riding a tiny little motor scooter turned left in front of me while I was stopped at the light.
This guy had the most bitter, angry look on his face, and as he passed my car, he spit on my hood.
Now did I get angry?
Did I flip him the bird?
Yell some nasty curse?
No-I laughed. And I mean l out loud.
I didn’t take HIS problem as my own. I didn’t let his hate flow into me.
It just bounced off my joy of life.
Too often, guys find themselves in morbid fear of a woman’s rejection.
But if I can laugh off a cranky old bastard hocking a loogie on my Swede-mobile, surely you can handle a cold look, or a nasty stare, or even a polite, “I’m sorry, but I have a boyfriend.”
And if you can’t, even **I** can’t help you.
Instead of worrying about HER bitch shield, just focus on developing your joy shield.
Then let the vibes shine out.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. If you’re ready to create the kind of vibe that magnetizes the moist pink poon to you, click here.
Carnegie said something like “happy people like what they get”, so if my gf is a fat stupid annoying bitch I wouldn’t even need a pattern…. I will just love her!!!
You once said when you dont know what to do, take a bold step forward so I bought the Shinzen’s cd set… next time be specific, put a link to your courses 😉
It could be a joke but I really believe I’m on the beginning stages of the trail, the dark one. Maybe you were honest when you said that noone in the world is enlightened, who knows. I believe that happiness indipendent from conditions and circumstances is possible. Happiness can be described, and is an energetic configuration of the body, I don’t need the holy path of Mount Carmel, only controlling where my energy goes and be the manifestation of *a Will that have cause outside emotions*. I practiced formal meditation and yoga classes for less than 10 hours in my life and I deeply tested in real life mindfulness and equanimity experiencing meditational states in simple activities. And I did something else discovering connectedness with non-ericksonian language patterns that are even more effective, because I couldn’t understand the structure. I know why you laugh at him: you fucked his gf, you dont even know it but he does!
Why did he spit on it? He was jealous? I thought you live near LA… where people drive all sorts of cars.
I’ve been using this strategy recently to ward off hatred from a guy who keeps sending threatening mssgs to my phone behind a woman who I only got involved with once a couple of months ago?!
I’m trying this akido style approach in hopes that it’ll just pass but nowadays you never know how far another is willing to go…
Ross, I don’t recall you ever speaking on this type of issue dealing with women so please respond.
Ah yes the all powerful pattern interrupt . Once I had to slow down and change lanes while a duck dynasty looking good ole boy in a pick up truck replete with American flags on the sides was hugging my bumper. I slowed down so I could change lanes for a off ramp. He was driving side by side keeping up with me and a angry look on his face. I purposely slowed and smiled at him and waved while he had to move forward otherwise he would have a accident. The look on his face of “wtf” was priceless
I am working on it! Just this week I realized again how brutally women are punishing me, when I am acting caucious and not moving Forward fast enough….
That is a great way to look at it. Thanks