Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
You’re out shopping last-minute.
You see that sexy young woman dressed as Santa’s Hot Helper.
You want her to lick and suck your candy cane.
You walk past the store. You look at her.
She stares you down.
And….you just blank out and keep walking.
Why, oh WHY?
Now, listen up as Santa Ross gives you a stocking-stuff-her that gets her jingling your bells.
The first thing to do is…
Prepare Your State For Sarging
Santa’s Sexy-Sweet Assistant
A great way to do this is warming up by being friendly with everyone.
Instead of making this, “I’m going to go talk to girls,” how about making it being friendly with everyone, men and women? Got that? In a minute I’ll tie this all together.
The second thing is that you need to
Change The Meaning Of
What You’re Doing
You, as a man, have been programmed, in about 1,853 subtle ways over time, to believe approaching women is shameful and wrong and you should be embarrassed about it.
Approaching girls? That’s like you’re going to do something sneaky like pick their pocket or steal their watch. You’re doing something you should be slightly ashamed of? Right?
LISTEN: You’re not doing anything wrong or shameful by talking to a girl.
So you need to reframe that.
Now, About Those
Language Patterns
Small wonder, if you listen to those who say Speed Seduction® language patterns are a form of “trickery” that no “intelligent” woman would go for, or all that rot.
Small wonder, indeed, you think that you’re imposing something on a woman and shoving it into her mind and down her throat to make her obey you. You’re missing the whole point of how the seduction patterns work.
Language patterns work because they’re how women think anyway.
Even though they may feel a little foreign to you or a lot foreign to you, you need to understand that this is not making women do something against their will or tricking or fooling them.
You’re not going to lie to them and tell them you’re a medical doctor when in fact you’re a truck driver.
You’re talking to them in the way they talk to themselves.
Let’s Go, Pick Up That Sexy Elf Now
Remember I said, start by being friendly with everyone. For now, the Delicious Elf is not a “chick” or a “babe” or a “hottie.” She’s just “someone.”
Now try a direct opener, like “I noticed you walking, and I’d kick myself in the butt if I didn’t say hi.”
Why not? Is there some law against it?
It’s all about the MEANING you attach to it.
You have every right to talk to anyone you want to.
Listen to Santa Ross.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Master the art of effortlessly meeting women, anytime, anywhere, on full “autopilot” and NEVER be stuck on what to say again, EVER, for a lifetime! This is just a tiny, nice slice of what we’ll cover inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
OK, and after that?… “you just blank out and keep walking”… lol
that opener will get her attention, their is two ways she will respond either negative or positive. Exit stage left if negative… if positive… we going need more training buy more products from ross.
Yes it’s difficult. This is the alternative and for many guys isn’t even available: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjSut4rYKgM
😉
I do wonder what would happen if you had some fun with it,: Hi I was just walking by and saw you looking at me and I knew I had to come and talk to you otherwise you would think about me all day, hi Im ….. will have to see 🙂
Santa Speaks! PUA is the new AFC. Girls these days don’t have hang-ups with sex, they have hangups with assholes who think memorization skills and bad acting are enough to buy a free hooker.
Other than the candy cane bullshit, this looks like a page out of my recent journals. Never go out ‘sarging’. Always ‘warm-up’ by being friendly to everyone – including HB’s! That’s right. Smile and hold the door for a hottie without hitting on her. ‘Warm up’ the whole ‘venue’ by demonstrating that you are a Discreet Gentleman who knows how to read a woman’s signals and make it a delightful time for EVERYONE involved.
Ross is a character designed to sell products to men. If I could add one module to the whole program, it would be a self-diagnostic to decide when to focus on ‘getting some’ and when to focus on becoming a more decent human being. Which reminds me, my comment about, ‘my friend Dave’ yesterday reminded me of this scene: http://youtu.be/XanBCUc-jtw
‘Doing something excellent in her presence’ might be little more than holding space with her and really listening to what she has to say, WITHOUT losing your own NON-HARMFUL intent…
That’s my morning pot of coffee.
“it’s all about that meaning you attach to it”
Thats is life changing right there.