Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
What if I told you that for many guys, all their problems with women basically stem from just a few things systematically?
Let’s take a look.
Number one is: just not allowing yourself to have enough experience with women because you think you’ve got to get it right the first time.
There’s that need for a guarantee to get it right, or you’re a “loser” if you screw it up.
Bullshit.
Instead I say: “When you’re unsure what to do next, take a bold step forward.”
Second is: there’s shame about being anxious, instead of support for owning it – as the first step to claiming mastery over it.
That’s just silly – because everyone is anxious until they’re taught to feel differently.
If you’re not taught effective girl-getting skills, then there’s no reason why you should have them.
They’re not innate or inborn, contrary to the expectations that people have from them.
To expect you to just magically have them is, therefore, just plain silly.
It’s Those F—–g “Romance Racketeers”
At It Again….
Due to the dreck that’s fed to us though social programming, men are burdened with very cruel expectations that we should just “know” how to be good with women.
According to this nonsense: if we’re not, like, instant Don Juan from the moment we’re like 12 years old and we first notice girls don’t have cooties, then we’re no good as a human being and deserve to be shamed or ridiculed.
That’s like being told you have to succeed jumping out of an airplane, unhurt, the very first time, without even being given the parachute, much less instruction on when and how to pull the cord.
And the result is very similar to what this fucked-up belief does to many guys’ ability to succeed with women.
Well, I Don’t Buy Any Of That,
Even For A Quarter
And, as of right now, I’m calling bullshit.
So, start by getting that erroneous programming fixed and nailing your inner game.
Because see, doing positive programming, rehearsing and doing affirmation is all great. But first, you have to claim your acceptance confidence.
The Next Step Is Entirely Up To You
(So Take It Now)
I want to hear your thoughts.
Leave a comment below.
I PERSONALLY read EVERY SINGLE COMMENT.
Once you do that, take a big, bold stand for yourself, your future, and your success with your women who you truly desire
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Ross, how do you define acceptance confidence? In your opinion, how does acceptance confidence change our approach to women?
This may help:
https://www.seduction.com/blog/acceptance-confidence-math/
Your like a great therapist saying this to me. I wish I could’ve absorbed these wise and comforting words years ago it would’ve,e saved me so much pain. Frankly, the dreck head social programmers want everyone to be dumb docile sheep for the animal farm. It’s i basically hears you say in the past- how cool is it that men can have a place to share their fears and find solace in expressing them and relying on the concepts of clarity and informed enthusiasm theirs no need to wallow in sorrow but. Rather to learn and move forward. All the best Paul.
The important thing is you’re here now.
As I say, “Up until now…”
hey Ross,
I can get girls interested but they seem to lose interest the second or third time I meet them (general Interactions) -not actual dates.Can they detect my lack of sexual experience or my concealed eagerness?That old adage “strike while the iron is hot” has always repelled any woman that was initially interested.
Like a giant neon sign. Women are highly intuitive.
https://www.seduction.com/blog/sexual-not-horny/
Ross i follow you from a couple of years and this is with no doubt the best post i’ve ever read.
I love how you dissect emotion and subtle emotion that drive our behaviors, slaving us.
I really think that are the subtle things we don’t give attention that fuck it up everytime.
Please keep up the good work. I highly appreciate it. 🙂
Much, much more to come.
Preach! And the reason for acceptance confidence is so you can go out and collect your bag of experience tokens that begin to assemble themselves into automatic competence…
Good analogy!
Spot on! I expect too much of success in short a period of time and I keep beating myself over it, over and over again(+ sometimes I get a fealling the other guys have greater success with women). Up until now… Although I still am a bit shy when talking/engaging in conversations with women especialy in public places or even in company of people that are close to me. Do you know any methods for how to get rid or at least lower my shyness? (I meditate once a day for 30 min) Sometimes I feel I’m just too shy to “take what I want” when I clearly know I should make a move. I dont know why, maybe I want to look modest 😛 (which is a stupid excuse). btw. This is my first post to you and I really feel honored if you will atleast see it 🙂 I think what you are doing is incredible! Coming on your seminar in the future is a definite priority on my bucketlist!
https://www.seduction.com/blog/overcome-fear-of-rejection-women-help-you/
Take the bold steps forward and later write down what happened.
The pen is the tool of your mind.
Just because you lost yours, doesn’t mean you can borrow mine.
Journaling is very effective and accelerates your progress by showing you a timeline.