Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
Almost every day I get e-mails and phone calls from students who have figured out how to overcome their fear with women.
Oftentimes they don’t even know what caused it. Then they figure it out – and master it.
Please keep the emails coming. This is why I teach smart guys like you how to master your girl-getting game. Today, I’m going to let one of them do the talking. Here goes:
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Dear Ross, as a student of yours, I want to tell you how much Speed Seduction® has changed not just what I do, but my entire way of thinking about women.
Here’s the scoop:
Back when I was in college I had a “summer love” girlfriend. It was all romance and making out until I went back to school and she stayed back home. She cried when I went back to school and told me she planned to come visit me soon. For the next few weeks we’re emailing and calling every day, and then suddenly she goes cold on me. I found out, through a mutual friend, that she had dumped me and not bothered to tell me!
Next time I was home I saw her and (politely) confronted her. She told me she was sorry, not for what she did, but that I found out. She even outright said she was more upset that our friend had “ratted her out” to me than she was bothered that the whole thing hurt me in some way.
Back then I was what you call an “average frustrated chump” in ALL areas of my life. Even then, you’d think I’d realize this chick was messed up and needed help and that the best thing to do was drop it and move on. But I couldn’t “snap out” of my desire for / devotion to her. For months. I agonized over what I had done wrong. (Sounds crazy? SHE dumped ME without telling me, and I’m worried what I did wrong?????)
Right after she dumped me I had two women I saw every day who I could have had for the asking. I got along with them great and my flirting with them was reciprocated. One even asked “so when are you going to forget this b***h and make a move on me?” But I killed my chances by droning on about my “ex” until these two (and other) women got sick of me.
I was pathetic, obsessed over a chick who wanted nothing to do with me, 200 miles away, when I was at college with 20,000 women at my immediate disposal.
To an extent that I didn’t realize, this incident was a gusher of ice water that flowed like an eternal cold-shower on my ability to pick up chicks for the next 10 years. Several times I got lucky and met someone, but I made excuses and sabotaged things so I wouldn’t put myself at emotional risk again.
But then, after studying your teaching on conquering fear around women, I figured out I was driven by a need to “make right” the wrong that had been done to me by her. Being willfully cut off from even being able to participate in the “closure” made me to think about it all the time.
I translated that need for….closure? revenge? something else? into desire for her. It drained my emotional capacity. I’d be at parties surrounded by mind-blowing hot chicks and my mind would be skipping like a broken record on the “ex” who never deserved me at all. It was still happening years later, even after I was finally “over her,” but I was programmed that way so bad I didn’t even remember the cause.
After I realized what happened I was able to finally let her go, using what you teach. Now, I’m the kind of man who can be in a room full of people and can fearlessly approach the HOTTEST BABE THERE like it’s everyday routine. I liked your story about the student who snuggled with the married chick on the airplane. Stuff like that happens for me all the time now.
I’m still what you would call “single and looking” but I’m “finding” many more women, having great times with the nice ones and spotting the users and abusers immediately.
Thanks Ross! I think I’m gonna come to your next seminar!
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This is AWESOME – and I congratulate you on stepping up and claiming the success, results, and future that belong to you by getting past your barriers. What happened to you isn’t unique. The way we are programmed can stay with us long after the programmer (in your case, that girl who did you wrong) is out of the picture, and we don’t even remember why we got that way in the first place.
Now that you’ve gotten that chick who did you wrong out of your inner brain, keep showing up, and keep having great times with the women who do you RIGHT.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. One quick clarification. Stuff like hooking up with hot chicks on airplane rides doesn’t “happen to” this student all the time now. Rather, he’s mastered the girl-getting mindset and seduction skills needed to effortlessly and routinely MAKE it happen.
And so can you.
With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction® Rapid and Total Success With Women, you’ll remain calmly in control of every interaction and situation with women – even when she stomps on your heart and tries to make it YOUR fault somehow.
Click here to claim yours today!
