Dear Seeker of Success,
Consider a woman’s emotions like a cake recipe.
Have you ever baked a cake?
Have you watched someone bake a cake?
Have you ever eaten cake?
Great.
When you bake a cake, what do you need?
You Need The Ingredients.
In The Right Proportion.
In The Right Sequence.
So, think of her emotions as the end result of a certain process that’s going on. A flow of feeling in her body, what she’s visualizing, what she’s saying to herself, the sounds she’s making in her head.
When you take control of those building blocks, you get control of the emotions.
When you get control of the emotions, you get the behaviors you want.
To spell that out,
Focus not on behaviors, but on the emotions and processes inside her that create her behaviors!
As you’re about to see for yourself, Speed Seduction® requires a fundamentally different view of humans and how we interact with each other.
It’s not just the techniques, but getting to look at people not as things, but as ongoing activities that have a structure, that have a flow, that have a sequence and a syntax.
That’s a key ingredient of the New Code for success with women.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Speed Seduction® Rapid and Total Success With Women shows you how to have precision, predictability and control when it comes to getting and enjoying hot women.
Two questions I have about using patterns are:
1. Does the subject matter of a pattern matter as long as it is full of commands, anchors, and trance words?
2. How can I use patterned language with other people around? One on one I di well but if she is with a friend or other guys are around its difficult. In the Speed Seduction book its says pattern may only be a few sentences long and I want to use my own patterns so can I create ones that are personal to me and keep them short while still having an effect?
It seems like a little NLP goes a long way like a few commands and anchors during a talk make a difference.
Frank
1) Will filling “Why did the chicken cross the road?” with commands, anchors, and trance words get her to gush herself while saying “To get to the other side?” What are you doing with vibe, states, etc in the types of questions you ask?
2) This is one of the key outcomes of what we share in Rapid and Total Success With Women. Making it seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation.
Ross, I have spoke with a woman. Told an exciting story but she remained flat for it. I mean i was experiencing feeling excited when i said the story but she didn’t .So if she is not a good visualizer (btw
the woman is an engineer) .What can i do with those kinda woman.She seems to think only straight and said to me she’s not so creative type.I really wanna go ahead with her. How do you deal with these kinda women ?
@Abinesh
Try something else.
Many engineering women can visualize. Otherwise we wouldn’t have buildings, cars, smartphones, the internet. Engineers vision and create these things. Women can be engineers and engineers can be women.
If she’s not “creative” what type is she? You’re seeing things she’s giving you that she doesn’t respond to. What is she giving you that she does she respond to?
If linear thinkers didn’t have sex, and procreate, we would have a very small population.
So it’s doable.
Ross you are a fucking hero! I was talking to a little red head who likes doing plays (she is married so I was just playing) and I said something like
“You what is really interesting about being up on stage? Its how you get that feeling of being in the moment, and you feel totally absorbed in this experience (SP) to the point that you remain focused 100%”
I didn’t use any commands or tonal marking simply described the state. I began talking to someone else and saw out of the corner of my eye that she was still paying attention to me and kind of looking at me with a lost look in her eyes and this was a couple of minutes after the fact. A little NLP goes a long way and I can say that I bought your SS Home Study along with several Bandler DVDs but in my opinion I have learned more from you than Bandler! You are the best teacher of NLP language techniques I have EVER seen plus you show how easy it can really be!!
@Frank
AWESOME – good on you! Nice!
At Speed Seduction® 2015: The New Code in Los Angeles, we’re revealing a process that makes it eaiser yet. Got your ticket? Would love to see you there.
I would love to be there as well unfortunately I am unable to attend but I practice a lot and love NLP! Right now I am working on creating patterns that have personal meaning for me so they come across as natural. When using them I just remember the subject matter and let the rest fall into place since I have practiced them a lot. I have a lot of wild I ideas that haven’t been touched on yet! One thing you said that makes a lot of sense is that you do not need to self-point all that often because your face and voice become an anchor which I always thought was the case.
Sorry you can’t make it to LA 🙁
Do be aware, I am not quite ready to announce officially, but we’re building a whole body of curriculum around the New Code – most likely an entire new course. But, seminar first.
I would love to hear about New Code. You original SS is good and seems to work well so New Code must be amazing! Can you build enough rapport to get into patterned language with a simple compliment or asking a question or would you recommend using NLP rapport building techniques (which is what I usually do)? What if a girl is a total ice queen?
Do you ever do trainings in NJ because if you do I would love to attend? Thanks for your advice and do keep me posted about New Code.