Dear Seeker of Success,
Watch this video (right out of my Coaching Program):
Is it possible to talk about something that sounds completely innocent, while subtly steering the conversation toward your bed (and her in it?)
How do you use a seemingly innocent conversation to embed commands (fascination, connection, attraction, list) that get her hot and bothered?
I may do a mini video on this topic soon, in fact. In the meantime, be sure to leave a comment…
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Here you are seeing just a fraction of the girl-getting power that my top students experience.
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Hi Ross,
Thanks for making my question in to a video; i didnt realise that it would have such an impact. I have always wondered if SS can be used in everday conversation to get girls in to bed;
Thanks
Bilal
Sounds great, although i think it´s important to remember that it´s just another tool, and not a reccomendation to do ALL the embeded commands and suggestions in a seemingly innocent way, since it presuposes you´re doing something “wrong” with her, sth you should hide and be worried about “getting caught”….
Awsome post!
I suppose my question would be is once the phrase has been finished would you recommend fractionating by going into another topic or remaining silent and waiting for her response? Like letting what you just stated sink in?
A guy has no problem when her gets a hard-on in public. BUT when a girl lets herself entertain thoughts of sex, everyone around her can smell it. Girls want to get to sex as quickly as guys do, BUT they are not in the habit of thinking about it all the time. Language is the most efficient way to help them go in that direction, and the most efficient way to get this art of pattern language into you head is to MEMORIZE the lighter weight supermarket type stuff that Ross presents in this coaching lesson. One sentence a day and you’ll have it forever by month end.
Here’s one (not as good as RJ’s of course> that could be useful if you see a woman at a grocery store (or any store with some modifications) looking for something which is pretty common:
“Hey, I recognize that look– I’ll bet you can’t find what you’re looking for. That always happens to me, you’re looking for something and it’s something you really need–me, it’s always candy–and you just can’t seem to find it anywhere. So you go in and out all the aisles looking, figuring it must be buried deep inside one of them but nothing. Then, just when you’re about to give up, you realize it’s staring you right in the face. I’ll bet this is totally happening to you now.”
Great suggestions. What type of openners would you recommend before using these commands, and suggestions?
Great stuff again.
Thanks,
Bieber
Hey Ross,
Great video, suggestions and motivation.
I’ve used and bought your stuff over the years (2001 Complete and Deluxe Speed Suduction and attended an ’04 Speed Biz in Dallas) All well worth the money and I learned so much.
Now into the mid 50’s thing and ready to go after it again. I know my experience and “suave” is OK but really want to hit it hard for another year or two before I finally settle down. Maybe.
Not really that much into the twenty somethings or early thirty somethings (I won’t kick them out of bed nor dissapoint a young’in when she needs some lov’in) but always open to improving the rates for the “mature” woman from mid thrities on up.
Any chance you begin to work on that?
I mean there really are some hotties that are cougars and beyond that are here for us to pleasure beyound their belief. (and for the occaisonal cum shot to their pretty face or a nice swallow) hee.. hee… heee
Let me know when you begin to addres the cougar and “mature woman” market!
cj
@CJ
Interesting but I don’t share the idea that “older women” are any more fundamentally different in terms of the basic rules: design and hold your state, use your language, notice the responses and utilize them. They are just more likely to fuck and have saggier bodies.
But I MAY do a product on younger women…or if not a product, a free update.
RJ
Cool… ready for it and a discount for a long term satisfied customer!!!
What about using Suggestions and Commands over the phone?
Would it work over the phone with an ex or girls that got away?
What about if the girl is not that keen on meeting in the first place?
Is it best to just keep it simple on the phone and get the meeting and then use Suggestions and Commands?
Seems very interesting, gotta put it to the test though.