Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
As I have said over and over, one of the major keys to living the life of your dreams is recognizing and getting off of the auto-pilot that keeps you single and lonely!
Remember, most people are walking around IN TRANCE. And even more importantly, the trances they walk around in… trances of fear… of limitation… of doubt of lack… really do not serve them!
Actually, these trances DO serve someone.
They serve the “power structure” that profits and feeds off of a society of weak, programmed, obedient and fearful robots, who will look to the “authorities” on how to live an “ok” life.
Getting Off Of The “Single And Lonely” Autopilot…
Now… Today!
One of the big pieces of getting off of autopilot and having real choice, is becoming aware of your fixed paterns of perception, response, action, etc.
To develop this “meta” awareness is a powerful tool to peel away old, trapped ways of thinking, acting and responding and believing. It makes it MUCH easier to move up ANY learning curve for any skill set.
You see, technical skill IS important. But many people offer fairly good models for technical skill (how to sell, how to seduce, how to get fit, etc) in different areas of life, yet few people get real changes or the huge leaps they want from following this advice.
Sometimes, the advice is lacking.
But just as often, even with good “advice” and good model for new technical skills, the person trying to follow this advice has a bigger problem: they want to really change an area of life that has been deeply emotionally challenging, evoking lots of fear, self-doubt, personal limits etc.
What can often happen is that the new advice, new skills, new ways of thinking, feeling, acting and believing are filtered THROUGH the old emotions, experiences, beliefs, etc
This means that people seldom consistently will act out the new skills from the right frame of mind. They will be fighting themselves, their old habits, tendencies, etc.
A metaphor I use is, if I give you a pair of glasses dipped in dog doo-doo, EVERYTHING WILL LOOK BROWN.
That is why methods that assist in building clear, unfettered awarness can help us keep old responses, beliefs, behaviors, choices at bay and “in the freezer” LONG enough for new ways to take hold, and long enough for us to move up new learning curves because we can see the new skills, beliefs, responses THROUGH CLEAR EYES.
This is doubly necessary when the new ways are very different from the old ways and require major shifts.
Remember, the further something stands from how you are used to acting, thinking, feeling and believing, the greater the chance for HUGE leaps. Also, the greater the chance for old ways to leap back up, unless you have a practice and discipline to deal with them.
I’ll say that again: practice and discipline. Onward… Anything you do to bring your habitual patterns into your awareness(without anger, fear or reaction) is useful.
This is why I am challenging you to go from one extreme to another and to pay attention to flows of feeling that trigger all of it; the awareness of feeling flow is key to knowing when you are slipping into old patterns of behavior and is also key to designing in NEW ones!
Peace and piece,
RJ
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“This is why I am challenging you to go from one extreme to another and to pay attention to flows of feeling that trigger all of it; the awareness of feeling flow is key to knowing when you are slipping into old patterns of behavior and is also key to designing in NEW ones!’
yes people will not like the new-vibrant-you and will try to knock you back to your old self where you will feel tired/unenergetic….you “will go back to sleep”
Watch out for the energy vampires and institutions of this world
WAAAW Ross jeffries the best jew ever met
Hey,
Everyone, as promised, here’s the message I sent to an intelligent and adventurous HB not very long ago, on Facebook… As I said, I met her at a social function, and rapidly (for a beginner) dropped her into a trance state there, but really didn’t do much with it other than make her more suggestible and aware of me (and I didn’t really really set up a very clear anchor for this state- the closest thing being a kind of subtle patting of my own chest which was also used as a self-point)… Please tell me if this sounds like I was just cruising in single/lonely “auto-pilot” when I wrote this; or if it sounds like I was stepping on the suggestions too hard… Note that I’ve replaced her name with a few X’s, to protect her privacy, but the messages is otherwise unaltered.
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Hey XXXX, I had fun chatting on Sunday! I hope you stop to think about the time we spent together and consider that you did as well… Perhaps you can still picture our conversation about getting lost in the woods, and wonder whether I have any more interesting stories like that to tell? (I certainly do)
Speaking to you as somebody who loves a little excitement in their life, I wonder if after we’ve spent some more time together you’ll end up concluding that we had a really great time laughing and talking and sharing stories, or just realize that it was a really awesome adventure hanging out- and wonder with anticipation when the next time is we’ll get to hang out!
Regards,
Blake
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So what does everyone think? Was I in “auto-pilot”? Was I stepping on the techniques too hard here?
Regards,
Blake
@Blake This is wayyy too heavy to send in an email. This is the kind of thing best done in person. Regards….RJ
@Blake My 2c. Some stuff works much better when you SAY IT because then the person can’t BACKTRACK and TRY to figure out what you said and meant. So, when told – it just goes in. But when read – the person can (and usually will) look back and try to figure out what the message actually says… the nice effects you were aiming at would usually be lost at that point IMHO. This sort of stuff includes blatant double-binds and so forth…