Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Recently on this blog, I touched on the idea that some guys seem to be able to get any woman, any time, without even trying.  Using the example of the gentleman who seemed to be able to seduce a woman by just touching her hip, I pointed out that there’s more […]

Dear Speed Seduction Student, When you are mastering your skills with women, it’s critical to have a process that makes the concepts real and valid for you. Click “Play” for an introduction to how this works for you: Peace and piece, RJ P.S. As you saw in the video, this is Part 1 of 4.  […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I’ll tell you a big reason why a lot of guys don’t approach women: fear of embarrassment. Hey, you’re walking up to this chick who you’ve never met before, you know nothing about her, and for all you know, she could be one of those meanies who gets her kicks off […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Another aspect of showing up attractive is learning to develop a good relationship to uncertainty, anxiety, and not knowing what the fuck is going to happen. Many guys come to me wanting “confidence” with women. But what they are really saying is they want what I call “performance confidence”. What is […]