Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, When things don’t quite go your way…when you strike out with every woman you meet today (or all week long), when you feel hurt, it is natural to want to protect yourself. It triggers off a “one-two-three-four” thought process… Why did this happen to me? This is ALWAYS going […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In yesterday’s blog post about the dominant vibe, I explained how in over-reaching in trying to be commanding, many otherwise smart guys come across as desperate supplicators in denial and ironically reveal themselves to be Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC). Today, I want to delve into a very common scenario that makes […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Another aspect of showing up attractive is learning to develop a good relationship to uncertainty, anxiety, and not knowing what the fuck is going to happen. Many guys come to me wanting “confidence” with women. But what they are really saying is they want what I call “performance confidence”. What is […]

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student, Whether you want to have more success when it comes to how to pick up women, how to approach women, how to seduce women or how to get them into bed, everyone keeps repeating the same old mantra: “Confidence is the key”. The problem is that “confidence” can and does have […]