Dear Seeker of Success, Recently I shared a bizarre assignment that helped a student overcome approach anxiety.  Well, I wasn’t done. Next, I showed him another assignment that actually hurt his hand. Not the way you’re thinking – but without doing this, the odds are, he’d still need his hand in the way you’re thinking: […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Have you ever heard the expression “damn, that guy’s got balls”? After 25 years of picking up and meeting women, one thing I’ve learned the hard way, is this: women get turned on immediately, the more gutsy, outrageous, and bold a guy is when he first approaches. In short, they LOVE […]

Dear Seeker of Success, “Just half an inch?” you ask. That’s right. (Who said bigger is better?  he he he) What is my solution to approach anxiety, you ask? My solution is to calm down your physiology and turn down a little bit of that lust going through your body. It’s deceptively easy, but don’t […]

Dear Seeker of Success, What exactly is an “alpha male” anyway?  Did they learn about it from studying wolves? Must have been the wrong wolves, as I explained way back in 2014 …along with showing you two things that are more important: Peace, RJ