Dear Seeker of Success, There are four areas of a woman’s life you can get really curious about: Contribution, Connection, Construction, and Craving. I call them the 4 Cs. When Sarging, here’s how they come together. The first “C” is where she is finding her sense of Contribution. Where does she find her sense that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Gaining a profound mastery of your world involves getting curious. And when I say to get curious, I mean to get curious about your ENTIRE world, not just the women in it (or the women you’d like to have in it). Take this approach with people you meet: “That’s really interesting. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Pretty much every single day, our customer support team gets questions like “which recorded course has so-and-so pattern?” I get asked this all the time on webinars and group calls, too. I’ll say here, what I say there: Memorizing patterns and reciting them to women will rarely, in and of itself, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Once you complete your pre-opener, it’s time for an “opener”. A great example is: Comment, Question And Observation. For example: if she looks athletic, look at her and say, “Can I ask you a question? Do you do a martial art? Can you fight?” After she responds – no matter what […]