Dear Seeker of Success, With any approach toward women, whether it’s a funny approach or question, comment and observation, we want to do a pre-opener. A pre-opener is something you say very briefly to a woman just so she can sample your voice and presence and know that you’re safe. For example, in a coffee […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In designing and preparing the New Code, I foraged through stacks and stacks of notes and things I’ve been writing to myself. Some elements of this I’ve shared already; but there are five elements of seduction self-mastery that will boost your girl-getting game right away. What is it that enables us […]

Dear Seeker of Success, One of my favorite all-time sports legends is Muhammad Ali. Now, I am old enough of a fart to remember Ali boxing, in his prime. Back when he was a young fighter, he was so fast, so unpredictable, and had such amazing reflexes that you could actually see the moment when […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In that conversation that you had with that gorgeous woman, what did you talk about? What were the themes? When you sat down to have that conversation, did you think beforehand, “How is my communication going to be structured to capture and lead her imagination and emotion? What effect, if any, […]