Dear Seeker of Success, Many times, beginning students have said or written to me, “I’m just having trouble getting started with this stuff. It’s not that I’m really shy or anything… it’s just that this new way of talking to women seems SO strange to me.” Now listen; I am very aware that a first […]

Dear Seeker of Success, In the beginning, when you learn to speak the Sargy language of sexualization, phonological ambiguity, language patterns and more, it may not feel familiar or comfortable to you. Any new direction can be hard. (See that? he he he he) Three things you must know. First of all, that’s the whole […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, One of the all-time favorite language patterns is the Boyfriend Destroyer. (For anyone who thinks the idea of a “boyfriend destroyer” is bad, evil, misogynistic, disrespectful, rude, pushy, or anything else I’ve been called on the Romance Racketeer talk shows, stop your hissy-fitting and read this first.) Then come back, with […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Veterans of our live seminars are familiar with “Ross Plays With Girls” demos. With the aid of female volunteers, I demonstrate Sargy techniques, language patterns, touches, verbal/nonverbals, and more. A lot of these show up in our top recorded courses as well. See how powerful this can be even when the […]