Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Does it feel weird or uncomfortable, meeting and approaching women you find attractive? Then stop it. No, don’t stop meeting and approaching women.

Dear Seeker of Success, A recent coaching call with a student revealed how pervasively the Romance Racketeers have spoiled the game for smart men everywhere. This student is 29 years old. He asked two questions: “Should I pursue older women or younger women?” “Where would I find older women, or younger women?” Many smart men […]

Dear Seeker of Success, A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle. It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women. It also doesn’t means “abs”.  […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Have you ever heard the story I tell about the toy robot that I broke? (I share this all the time with people who call in for coaching.) When we were little kids, I used to break my little brother’s toys. One Hanukkah, my sister Anita bought my little brother Steve […]