Dear Seeker of Success, So far, we’ve looked at how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, the power of metaphors, and what’s going on in your mind – and hers. Today, we get into the physiological and energetic aspects. Often when guys are stuck, there’s a cognitive aspect, which is how they’re thinking about it, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom. There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions. There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to […]

Dear Seeker of Success, As we move through our series on why confident men shut down around really hot women, so far we’ve explored how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, and the power of metaphors. So far, so good! Now I’m going to show you what’s going in her mind, and yours, and how […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Yesterday I revealed a big secret about easily meeting women, anywhere, anytime, even when you use the dumbest lines. Many of you were quite happy with the advice. And that’s because they could instantly see yourself successful after so easily doing it. Today I’m going to give you something powerful. Something […]