Dear Seeker of Success, Did you know you can get away with the most outrageous, opening lines if you have one realization and one key rule to follow? I agree it’s important to learn this. That’s because when you do, you’ll be able to meet women anywhere, anytime, and NEVER worry about what to say. […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Last time, we looked at how “shutting down” is incorrect in the sense that men are actually AMPING UP. Today, we’ll cover the next aspect: how you are languaging the problem. How are you talking to yourself about it? What metaphors are you using?

Dear Seeker of Success, A student of mine shared that he doesn’t have approach anxiety except when he gets to women who are like an “8” or higher. Then he shuts down. He asked me, “What can I do to overcome the shutting down?” Here we have a guy who does well with women until […]

Dear Seeker of Success, The other day I wanted to have some fun and practice with some “minimalist” Speed Seduction®. By that I mean: just using commands without any formal patterning. So I’m having coffee with this chick from Tinder and we are talking about what lets us know we are drawn to someone. Rather […]