Dear Seeker of Success, How can you project more sexual things without projecting horniness? Sexual is “I love f***ing. I’m a sexual person.” Horny is “Oh my god! I want to f*** you.” The difference is between being sexual, vs. being aroused in the moment. It’s the distinction between being hungry, vs/ and drooling over […]

Dear Seeker of Success, There are four areas of a woman’s life you can get really curious about: Contribution, Connection, Construction, and Craving. I call them the 4 Cs. When Sarging, here’s how they come together. The first “C” is where she is finding her sense of Contribution. Where does she find her sense that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, To get good at succeeding with younger women, you have to learn to see the world with a different view. In Speed Seduction®, we look for process and activity. If we want women to be attracted to us, somewhere inside of her she has a process for doing that. We want […]

Dear Seeker of Success, A student of mine reported in on a recent coaching call with a question about getting laid. (Yeah… I know… calling Speed Seduction® about getting laid? Who’da thunk??!?) Anywho… He’s been seeing her for a couple weeks. He’s 34, she’s 39. She’s never been married. She’s interested in having kids (and […]