Dear Seeker of Success, Gaining a profound mastery of your world involves getting curious. And when I say to get curious, I mean to get curious about your ENTIRE world, not just the women in it (or the women you’d like to have in it). Take this approach with people you meet: “That’s really interesting. […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A few months ago, I was a guest speaker at someone else’s event. I started my talk by asking: “By a show hands, how many here find themselves dwelling over and over again on mistakes they make with women? Situations that just haven’t or don’t work out?” Every single person – […]

Dear Seeker of Success, A student of mine was watching a Bono interview – the singer from U2. He said the video was magnetic – Bono had such charisma, like He doesn’t need to do anything. People are drawn to him. I agree: Bono’s intense. When you hear him talk, you get a sense that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, For many students, overcoming approach anxiety can’t be done by simply saying “suck it up, Buttercup.” Even (perhaps especially) if that message is delivered by your well-meaning buddies surrounding you at the party: “There she is.  She’s f@@king HOT.  Dude.  DUDE.  GO FOR IT!” Approach anxiety can be scary. Scary things […]