Dear Seeker of Success, NOT using the language patterns, techniques, and skills of Speed Seduction® is an insult to good women everywhere. That said, a number of students I’ve spoken with 1:1 feel the patterns don’t reflect your own experiences. “How can I talk about the Discovery Channel if I don’t even have cable?” “I […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Recently I shared a bizarre assignment that helped a student overcome approach anxiety.  Well, I wasn’t done. Next, I showed him another assignment that actually hurt his hand. Not the way you’re thinking – but without doing this, the odds are, he’d still need his hand in the way you’re thinking: […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Do you use the Speed Seduction® language patterns, games, quizzes, and techniques? Someone shared with me during this week’s “Call My Cell Phone” office hours, their reluctance to use the patterns. They said, “I actually tried the patterns a couple of times and they really worked, but then I stopped doing […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I want to tell you about a solid gold walk-up I did. Actually it was a walk-through.  Literally. I was in the shopping center near my home in Marina del Rey. There were four women in their mid-20s in front of me. I was trying to get by them so I […]