Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Last week I was hosting a video training and my cat, Tazzleberry Marie, kept interrupting. That’s not all. The day before, she grabbed my phone and took a selfie: Is she adorable, or is she ADORABLE? God, I love this kitteh. Peace, RJ P.S. In many ways, she carries on the […]

Dear Seeker of Success, By “too soon” I mean, the day (or the hour) before the time and place where you two were supposed to get together. A student told me this happens to him “all the time” and cited one instance in particular: She said, “You know what? I have something to tell you.” […]

Dear Seeker of Success, “Just half an inch?” you ask. That’s right. (Who said bigger is better?  he he he) What is my solution to approach anxiety, you ask? My solution is to calm down your physiology and turn down a little bit of that lust going through your body. It’s deceptively easy, but don’t […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Unfortunately, a lot of the “advice” on how to overcome approach anxiety makes it worse. Done repeatedly, it even creates the risk of making approach anxiety (seem like) an incurable condition.