Dear Seeker of Success, I’m taking a quick gander through my Lovely Mail Bag here and there are two e-mails from students here. When I put them together, I think they sort of solve each other.   Let’s give this a try. The first is from someone who seems to be having a little problem with […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Veterans of our live seminars are familiar with “Ross Plays With Girls” demos. With the aid of female volunteers, I demonstrate Sargy techniques, language patterns, touches, verbal/nonverbals, and more. A lot of these show up in our top recorded courses as well. See how powerful this can be even when the […]

Dear Seeker of Success, If you can tell me what you want in a woman…. ….I can tell you why you won’t get it. See, right off the bat, we have a major language problem. When you say, “I want,” the message is that it’s always separate and apart from you. You’re reaching for that […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines. There’s a reason why I hear it. One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other): a) She’ll […]