Dear Seeker of Success, Do you realize… how bad you’re getting in the way of a woman being hot and bothered for you… if you keep hanging around stoking the embers? Get lost…leave her alone.  Let her find her way to the bone… Peace, RJ P.S. A lot of what you’ve been told, up until […]

Dear Seeker of Success,, When you don’t need to get laid, then you start getting laid a lot. I call this the Paradox of Poon. The thing about paradoxes is this… Certain things are a paradox on one level until you change the frame. Then you see the real power in how it works. In […]

Dear Seeker of Success, If you’re on a Sarge, a meet, or (gasp) a “date” and you see her reaching for her i(don’t-actually-answer-the)Phone or Ambored (aka Android), maybe you are saying the wrong thing: Peace, RJ  

Dear Seeker of Success, I’ve been thinking about why so many smart guys aren’t getting the women they desire. In my research and review, I find some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”. […]