Dear Seeker of Success, When you’re in a pretty playful, “don’t give a fuck” state, that’s a great time to go sarging. (I’ve found that the “I don’t give a fuck what happens” attitude is often a key component of my best discoveries, breakthroughs and lays!) So this one time, I was in the local […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Have you experienced the feeling of knowing exactly what to do or say… …but when you’re actually in the situation, you Freeze up? Forget your lines? Take no action? Suddenly have no idea what to do? Not too long ago, I got a note from a student who can easily envision […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Let’s get into that age-old saying “Nice guys finish in their hand.” Is it true? How often has the phrase been spoken: “I would treat her like royalty, why does she keep going back to that jerk after how he treats her?” After a while, some guys get jaded and think, […]

Dear Seeker of Success, I’ve seen Sarges go colder than a winter day in Antarctica the moment a man senses he’s being tested by the salaciously scintillating Sargee in front of him. Case in point: this note from a student who’s basically doing it right but still hitting a stumbling block… > After a few […]