Dear Speed Seduction® Student, In today’s installment I want to talk about the changes in orientation of thinking that are a big part of showing up attractive. As I said last time, learning to have a good relationship with uncertainty is important, and in a sense, that helps in orienting a person toward having a […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Another aspect of showing up attractive is learning to develop a good relationship to uncertainty, anxiety, and not knowing what the fuck is going to happen. Many guys come to me wanting “confidence” with women. But what they are really saying is they want what I call “performance confidence”. What is […]