Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Another aspect of showing up attractive is learning to develop a good relationship to uncertainty, anxiety, and not knowing what the fuck is going to happen. Many guys come to me wanting “confidence” with women. But what they are really saying is they want what I call “performance confidence”. What is […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, I’ve had several students ask me why the following happens: You’ve connected with a woman and brought her to “that place” where she is ready to “go for it.” It started with her giving you a curious “uhhhh, can I help you?” glance when you first approached her, and […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters. For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or AFCs) about a man and a woman who meet, have a “summer fling” and then […]

Dear Speed Seduction® Students, The overwhelming majority of you have responded by saying you want me to discuss my discoveries and thoughts regarding showing up attractive. So here we go with that part of the discussion. I’ll be posting videos as well as written articles and I encourage your feedback.  As in my live events, […]