Dear Seeker of Success, In almost every case I say: nothing’s better than pink. However, when it comes to sales, marketing, and anything else we do to let others know we’re better than the competition, there’s one thing better. (When you’re Sarging a chick who’s in sales and marketing, think about how you could adapt […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Whenever I hear someone is in a relationship, my first question: is it a relationship, or a real-hate-shun-ship by default? Your married pal – does he have a wife-for-life who inspires him every day, or a “whyfe” he does everything to avoid? Before we go any further, let me be clear: […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Listen: flirting with a woman and her taking it the wrong way pales in comparison to something you might do (or not do) that will REALLY offend her: Peace, RJ P.S. Properly sexualizing the conversation with a woman means you may not even have to “make a pass” at her. Click […]

Dear Seeker of Success, Listen: the one question I get more often than any other is: “how important are my looks in getting women to want to jump me?” Can you get women if you’re bald, old, out of shape or ugly? What if you’re not 55, live 5 blocks from the Pacific ocean, tall, […]