Dear Seeker of Success,
A question I get asked frequently is, what to do when you have the hots for a woman who already has a bore-friend, BUT she seems to be into you too….
…..and she says she’s this close to having a fling with you or even dumping him for you?
One of my students told me he wants to reignite the spark with a “taken” chick he had flirted with before, get the Sarging energy back on full blast, and get her in his bed, even though she (says she’s) gone back full-time to that bore-friend of hers.
OK… those of you who have heard of, or used, my “Boyfriend Destroyer” pattern know that oftentimes, the chick will throw out the old “….but I have a boyfriend” line even when she doesn’t.
It’s your mission as a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training to channel her vibe and move her past this objection, and into your love-lair.
That still leaves the question….
What To Do When She’s Really Taken,
But You’re Still “Taken” With Her?
First, foremost, uppermost, important-most, let me ask the Captain Obvious question:
“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”
A while ago, I shared the story about a guy who was Sarging on this chick, only to find out she was his neighbor’s girlfriend, but he wanted her anyway. The guidance I gave to that student applies here too.
Furthermore, what is it about her that makes her so special? Could it be that she’s actually NOT so Goddamn perfect in every way, shape, or form, but because there’s no other hot items in your “little black book”, you THINK she is?
Next, take stock of what YOU want. Are you playing the field, looking to bang everything with a pulse that looks good in a miniskirt and get laid left and right?
Or, is your goal to find that one special, beautiful, enjoyable, compatible hottie and make a lifetime (or at least a long time) of shared enjoyment and passion with her?
If the latter, this “taken” chick who (claims she) almost cheated on and/or left her “borefriend” for you….what’s to say, if she becomes your “g/f,” that someone else (most likely another of my students!) won’t be hearing the same song-and-dance about YOU?
Think carefully about what you’re doing here.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot and bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there…
… even guys who are supposedly better looking or make more money.
All of this (and much more) is covered in Speed Seduction® Rapid And Total Success With Women.