Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I must be hitting some raw nerves with this series, because I am getting some wonderful feedback.
In Part II, I explained the all important difference when it comes to interest, investment and commitment to action with women, and how mastering this will skyrocket your success, satisfaction and enjoyment with women.
Now I would like to talk about the third fatal mistake with women. This one is relatively easy to correct(note I said “relatively):
Third Fatal Mistake: Opening Your Mouth More Than Your Ears
Listen: much of what we are commonly taught about success with women, is not only wrong, but dead wrong. It leads to confusion, frustration, settling for women you can get, staying with women you’d leave in a moment if you could do better, occasional relationships by “mistake” etc etc etc.
It sucks.
Often success in any area of life involves ignoring and even doing the exact opposite of what people tell you.
So contrary to the utter bovine feces that is being taught all of those “pick up” gurus-who are mostly my failed former students anyway-you should NOT be doing most of the talking, spinning your “value demonstration” routines, and monopolizing the conversation.
Instead, understand that if you can get a woman talking in the right direction, about the right themes and topics, and if you can learn to observe and guide the powerful emotions she experiences as she does so…
She Will More Often That Not TALK HERSELF RIGHT INTO YOUR BED!
I cannot tell you how many times, time after time, women have virtually handed me their “seduction road map” all because I knew how to get them talking in the right direction that stirred up all their juicy emotions.
In fact, there are actually six major conversational themes or topic I’ll teach you, any one of which will get a woman steaming hot, invested and ready to act on her desire with you!
(Remember, as I said in the last issue, strong emotions are just the first step in the interest—>investment—>commitment cycle.)
But in order to do this, you have to listen to what she is saying. That means you need to know when to shut your mouth and open your ears. And you can’t do that if you are blabbing all the time.
So shit-can those club-routines my retarded, flunked-out, former students are peddling, and learn to listen your way into a woman’s bed. It’s the smart, fun, and easy way to have the satisfaction and choice with the truly desirable women you’ve really wanted.
