Dear Seeker of Success,
To start a fire, what do you need? What are the necessary elements to create fire?
You need heat.
You need oxygen.
You need some sort of combustible material and a spark or something to ignite it.
Each of those elements is necessary – and they all work together.
Individually, they don’t create fire – and at the same time, you don’t get fire unless you have them ALL working together.
The Same Goes For Your Success
With Women You Truly Desire
And Want To Be With
It’s necessary to have all your wonderful cognitive understandings about what works with women, but that alone is not sufficient for your success.
You must create a system, a bias that says, “I’m going to give myself permission to play in the world and f*** with people and find out what happens.”
But How Do We Design This System?
(A Lot Of Questions To Answer)
The question is, how do you design that in a way where whatever discomfort comes up, because it’s unusually different, is not interpreted as a signal that you’re going to shut down or fail?
It’s simply a signal that you think “This is something different,” get excited, and pay attention.
In addition, how do you, in moving through the skills with people in the world, resolve the inevitable occasional confusion or frustration that will occur? People, especially females, people with vaginas, are a lot more chaotic than any program or system.
Then the question, becomes how do you maintain your motivation, insight and learning in the world with the minimum amount of ruminating on it and the maximum amount of fun experimentation?
How do you take on a fun learning frame?
Not, “Oh my God, I’d better make this work!” or “I hope this works,” or “God damnit, those f***ing bitches! It must work!”
Instead, “Let’s have fun with this. Let’s trust Ross. I believe him. This is going to work. Let’s go have fun and f*** with it, and see how much fun I can have learning what I need to learn.”
To Sum Up: Your Two Key Takeaways
For Today’s Success With Women
Write these questions down and really go through this every day:
- “How much fun can I have learning what I need to learn?”
- “How much fun can I have learning what I claim as mine to learn?”
The more you answer them, the more answers – good answers – you will come up with.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. How much would you love the power to predictably and easily create, intense emotional states of lust, fascination, utter desire, and total arousal in the hottest women around, in minutes, even when you aren’t close to being her type?
Yes?
Hell Yes?
