Dear Seeker of Success,
Has a woman ghosted on you?
It goes something like this.
A woman you meet appears highly interested.
You spend time together, then there are e-mails, phone calls, texts, and then perhaps you meet again.
But then…
…All Of A Sudden, It’s Like
She No Longer Exists!
When you call, her phone rings but it always goes to voicemail.
She never calls back (yes, pal, YOUR voicemail is working, you can stop calling your phone company to ask, she hasn’t left you one lately).
The e-mails you send her aren’t bouncing back, but you’re not getting replies either. (She’s not in your spam or junk mail either.)
Those places where you used to see her?
Not there either.
Without a trace.
So What The Hell Happened? Was She
An Apparition To Begin With?
Sometimes it might leave you wondering if you said or did something (came on too strong, didn’t come on strong enough, said/did something that overwhelmed her) that scared her off.
There could be MANY reasons for her (sudden lack of) behavior, other than her having caught a borefriend…or a bad cold (same difference).
Consider the following…
Hint: how much of your attractiveness is based on your belief that you have to demonstrate these super-powers of deep understanding?
Hint: there are FOUR attractive vibes – what proportions are you mixing?
Hint: if you had incredible sexual confidence, how would what you are doing change? Not just in terms of behavior, but also, in addition to that, with your vibe?
Hint: are you being at all physically forward? At what point do you seek to test for physical openness and readiness?
Hint: do you think that you need the woman to make the first move? (Meaning, she got tired of you waiting on her and just “Exit, Stage Left”-ed YOU.)
Hint: How is touching and being physical intergrated into your Sarging from the very beginning – as opposed to being something you only do when you are ready to “close”?
Ok, think about these items as they might “hint” you in the right direction.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Speed Seduction® training shows you how to use your language to create states of attraction, lust, fascination and utter desire, in any woman you want – and do it so she thinks it’s HER idea.
The more you do this, the less she’s likely to ghost on your Sargy ass.
Just one of the many things we’re serving up for you.
I have a disappearing act on my hands. Started off as a great success story – as it was the first girl I’d had sex with in nearly two years (a former cheerleader at my college). I felt I did a pretty good job displaying the different vibes. We were hanging out for about a month and had great sex. Both sides were satisfied in that regard, as I gave her two orgasms – at least – every time we had sex. It seemed the intensity/chemistry was only growing the last time we hung out and then she started acting really distant. Finally, I told her straight up that i felt she’d been noticeably distant and I’m not going to keep expending energy if I’m not getting the same from her. Her response was just that it was a busy stretch at work and she didn’t think she could give me what I was looking for, especially since we live about an hour away from each other.
I asked a female friend about this and she said that sometimes when women aren’t confident – instead of expressing their emotions verbally they’ll put out physically because they know a guy won’t reject that. She suggested hanging out with her a couple of times, not trying to have sex with her but still being flirty and she will likely soon start coming on to me again. She warned though, it’s very likely she’ll pull back at least once more.
What are your thoughts Ross? I’m perplexed, yet somewhat intrigued too. Anyways, thanks for all you do. It’s really helped raise my confidence with the ladies. I was for sure the nice guy everyone came to with their problems but the psychology of speed seduction has given me the posture I’d been lacking. I’m still a work in progress but keyword there is ‘progress.’
Chuck Norris uses ribbed condoms inside out, so he gets the pleasure.
Chuck Norris is not hung like a horse. Horses are hung like Chuck Norris.
When Chuck Norris was born, he immediately had sex with the first nurse he saw. He was her first. She was his third. That afternoon.
Chuck Norris once ate three 72 oz. steaks in one hour. He spent the first 45 minutes having sex with his waitress.
Chuck Norris can make a woman climax by simply pointing at her and saying, “BOO!”
Chuck Norris once visited the Virgin Islands. They are now the Islands.
Seriously, don’t get dating advice from women! That’s part of the reason I was a virgin myself until my 20s.
On the other hand, the frustration led me to create Speed Seduction.
The rest is history.
On your situation, my guess is you weren’t the only stallion in the stable and she was getting another ride she enjoyed better. It happens. Review the Sarge to see what lessons you can draw, then move onto the next one.