Dear Speed Seduction® Students,
This video is a clip from an interview I did with a German PUA site.
I’ll post a few more over the coming days.
Tell me what you think….
Piece and peace,
RJ
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I think I actually do know this site. Isn`t that Sven Bergmann? Well, the approach anxiety theme certainly is working for Germans as much as for any other guy on the planet. However what I`m really curious about is whether the issue of SS style language and the German language had been addressed in one of the other videos.
I`m not doing too bad in English speaking countries but when I get back to Germany now and then… It`s just not the same. I get better at responding to a girl in an English SS phrase but when I got back to Germany recently I mostly ended up puzzled and clueless, fell back to C&F or even worse random chit chat. I think the language gap just can`t be bridged. I`m curious how you are going to structure your European seminars since German as much as Danish do have the same kind of imperative structure. Chinese btw is said to be a great language working with SS. I have a Chinese friend who got started with you in the US and then went back to China and had incredible success.
Btw will you put up the interview with Kezia Noble? The things you say about clubs and how the environment of a club itself actually is your biggest enemy is quite interesting. I`d link the interview but I don`t know whether you approve that so…
And which product of you gives the complete method and tools to work out approach anxiety?
Great explaining, it made me calmer just thinking about it =)
Sound quality was very distracting. Sorry I am audio not visual. The comments and grunts from the peanut gallery made it worse. I am not sure I was able to pay attention enough to get the jist of the message and I won’t subject myself to another listen. Too uncomfortable for me.
@Frank
And it may be that very rigidity in your thinking and responses that is keeping your dick soft and dry.
that “ball of adrenaline guys feel in thier gut” (as part of approach anxiety) is because they put too much emphasis on the value of getting the exact result they desire (her phone number or something). but seeing it from her perspective, this makes guys seem like pushy car salesmen who are only making an objective out of her, and nobody likes that. in turn, this has her attaching negative vibes to the guy …
making the object of the approach to be about fun and friendship is more the way to go.
Markus: One of the main boosts you get from reading Ross’s patterns is “your learning of the right themes”. Speak slowly and softly. Keep eye contact at all times. Stay on theme. Keep talking until she speaks. Then listen. Try to memorize what she is saying. Have fun.
And by-the-way did those German girls actually tell you that they were puzzled and clueless? Most girls put themselves into a trance when they want to connect with a guy. Next time ask them something like: “As we are standing here talking, how might a girl feel about this”?
@ali : you should check the NYIG Dvds, great stuff…
What do you think, Ross, about what Markus said that SS doesnt’ work in german?, I’am new in this and I live in a spanish-speaking country, so I want to know if it will work for me. Thanks.