Dear Seeker of Success,
Sometimes you can seemingly do everything right with a woman, but you still don’t get a response to your first message you leave for her.
Or, you communicate with her for a while, then she just drops off without explanation.
This can leave you scratching your head (or other parts) wondering what the heck happened.
Were you wrong in reading her interest?
Did you screw it up somehow?
One thing I hope you grow to understand is this: women have lives.
They have things going on that may really distract them, even if they did feel something in that initial meeting.
Life is more like a moving parade than a seated audience.
They may have moved to a different spot the next time you try to re-establish contact.
The trick then is to persist, WITHOUT need and WITHOUT conveying need.
If you can persist WITHOUT being needy, it creates a very unique vibe, and uniqueness creates interest and attention.
Why Most Guys Screw It Up And
Blow Any Chance She’ll….Ever
See, most guys will give up, or push too hard.
My attitude is, every girl gets 2 chances to return a call. If I sense great potential in her, she’ll get three chances. No more.
Why?
I am simply not interested in chasing anyone. I would much rather preserve my morale, think long term, and re-affirm my abundance.
This strengthens me and makes me even more attractive to women.
So, What SHOULD You Do If
She Doesn’t Write (Or Call) Back?
Here’s the e-mail one student sent to a woman who had stopped replying to him after an initially substantial back-and-forth.
Watch how he displayed persistence, WITHOUT need (this is almost identical to one of the “anti-flake” voicemail patterns)
Dear NNNNNNN,
I had not heard from you for quite a while so I just wanted to drop you a quick note.
Let me ask you a question, point blank. Is communicating with me a situation where you can take it or leave it, or is it something that you’re smart enough that you really want to do?
I’m going to leave it up to you. And you know, if you don’t write it’s going to be a loss for me, but maybe, what you won’t realize until after, is that it may be a loss for you as well.
Ok. Bye.
To put it simply: he was fully expecting her to simply close him out.
But lo and behold,
She Replied Almost Immediately, With
The Most Lengthy E-Mail Yet!
She apologized ten times throughout the e-mail.
She gave every excuse in the book why she had not written and then stated that they were all just excuses and would he please forgive her.
She was not trying to slight him, she said.
Overall, note how my student’s e-mail to her displays his willingness to walk away and at the same time implies that if she is smart, she’ll want to be with him.
He doesn’t come flat out and directly say, “If you are smart, you’d call me back”.
There’s a reason why.
In the next installment, I dissect this e-mail and show you why it worked so effectively. In the meantime, read his e-mail to her over a couple times more and let it sink in with you.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Having the skills and confidence to approach and stimulate any woman’s subconscious sexual triggers using your words is one of the best skills in the world to have because it will give you complete seduction mastery even over the choosiest women.
It’s just a small piece of what you find inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
