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    A M June 29, 2012, 9:25 pm

    It is also the difference between changing her map and expanding it, that’s a real gift!!!!
    Ross, I think it could work even in the night game, consider this, if you enter in a discoteque with a low profile state but a strong frame people with notice you because you are doing nothing to be noted… here’s a great paradox

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    Tim June 30, 2012, 6:56 am

    That’s beautiful Paul! If anyone wants to know what the stuff you’re teaching is all about, I’ll send them this.
    See you in London!

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    The Purple Gang June 30, 2012, 7:26 am

    There is also a flip side to this as well. I realised a long time ago that women “were taking there marching orders from Mademoiselle”. The brainwashing begins in kindergarden, when little girls exchange
    valentine day cards and are conditioned that they have to have a borefiend to be complete.

    In that sense, the dc 2000 seminar was an eye opener, not only that the vast majority of people are in a relationship of delusion and limitation , but how omnipresent the conditioning is..it’s almost as if all of our existance is for the benefit
    of the symbolic “won percent”

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    Matt June 30, 2012, 8:18 am

    Hi Ross,

    like most guys I wish, I`d kown your stuff, while I was growing up.

    My main comment is, while it´s (probably) all true, what you´re saying and teaching, it doesn´t get any easier finding the right women. You still have to do the numbers. And if you´re realy unlucky, you might never find a good woman at all. But maybe, that´s just my lazy excuse…

    Matt

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    Alex June 30, 2012, 9:10 am

    very hard

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    Dave L. July 1, 2012, 3:28 am

    Good good good.

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    Carlos July 1, 2012, 8:39 am

    Thanks Ross, this really cleared things up for me.

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    Danny July 23, 2013, 12:20 am

    I have been studying Speed Seduction for quite a while now but I have not used it yet for a couple of reasons. 1) It is difficult for me to remember a pattern or focus on using embedded commands and anchors when I’m talking to a girl because of the pressure of approaching her. 2) I have a problem using embedded commands because I feel that my tonality (I lower my voice on commands) is too obvious. 3. There are often other distractions in the environment (her friends, family, customers if she is working, ect.) I worry that even if I get it right she will get distracted by outside influences or that someone might realize what I’m doing . Any advice on what I should do? I practice at home but I want to put NLP skills to use in daily life as well. Thanks

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      Ross Jeffries July 23, 2013, 9:02 am

      The key word here is you are WORRYING rather than DOING. Go ahead and DO and just see what happens.

      What if all of your worries are incorrect(or infrequently correct) and you are wasting your life when you could be enjoying?

      RJ

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        Danny July 23, 2013, 10:04 pm

        Thanks RJ. You are 100% right I need to get off my ass and just GO FOR IT and TAKE THIS OPPOTUUNITY so I can go in a NEW DIRECTION! Kidding aside I am a huge fan of yours and I love the whole NLP concept. How do you suggest I start employing embedded commands naturally? A few of my own ideas are: 1. Limit myself to 5 or 6 commands and work them to get comfortable with them in conversations (LIKE ME, FEEL A CONNECTION FORMING, GET EXCITED, FEEL A WARMTH). 2. Use only a few weasel phrases that would be easy to remember when in conversation. 3. Try to use them with some repetition while talking to the same woman so they are likely to stick in her unconscious. Thanks Ross I am going to put more effort into stepping things up. I have a question about analog marking when you deliver a command do you recommend dropping your voice on the command, pausing before and/or after the command, or using a hand gesture to mark it? I have been using a deeper voice on commands but I’m nervous that it will sound to extreme or even be noticed so what do you recommend? I even read someplace that marking commands is not necessary is that true? What for example if I don’t mark commands but say the same exact phrase with repetition (For example you could work a command such as LIKE ME into a conversation several times without being noticed). I know this is a lot but I really want to be good at it and you are the master so thanks again because I never expected YOU of all people to write a response to my question!! Take care and keep up the good work!

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