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    Bruce November 10, 2011, 4:11 am

    This was the best video you’ve yet done. Each slide was perfect in it’s simplicity and brevity and time shown. This was 9 minutes of bliss.

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    Kevin Spriggs November 10, 2011, 10:34 am

    Why should you hold up your hand when you are saying this?

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    Dan November 10, 2011, 12:22 pm

    hold up hand??? that is so vague. hold up your hand? her hand? to what end? please explain!

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    San November 10, 2011, 1:05 pm

    So I did this and she asked me to repeat the “but if you aren’t with someone….”
    So I repeated it and she still didn’t get it. Is that bad?

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    Brian November 10, 2011, 10:48 pm

    Hey Ross, great stuff, you’ve covered this before. Great info when applied.

    Thank you.
    Brian

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    zarathud November 11, 2011, 4:34 am

    @Dan & Kevin

    “Hold up hand” is a gesture that means “not with someone”.

    It’s like the female version of a guy making the one-handed tug-of-war motion.

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    The Bush With Legs November 11, 2011, 9:27 am

    Hey RJ,
    …Oh Quality…I get this a lot…

    I find women and I are both generally in a hurry wherever or whatever…

    Most people worth talking to have lives and not even expecting to meet a great guy like me, Let alone sit around waiting for one…Otherwise they would …OBVIOUSLY…huh

    Cheers…Where is this snippett from?

    TBWL

    P.S. Surely…SURELY…Holding your hand up is truly obvious…It’s like ….Well it’s Obvious… It does so many things and your not even saying anything…Well you are…Your saying something at the same time, (Or just after)…Cmon… It doesn’t take Doctor bleedin Spock to work that one out does it! Just do it! x

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      Ross Jeffries November 11, 2011, 12:13 pm

      @Bush I love that name.

      We hold the hand out to put a stop to and interrupt the objecting thought they were about to express, or could be about to express, and we are also asserting dominance.

      But what I also love about this is entire bit of patter is how it illustrates the best of Speed Seduction(R) languaging, in that, with just a few words, we are achieving multiple objectives.

      Let’s look a bit closer:

      1. We pace the ongoing situation between ourselves and the woman in that moment: it’s true that she and we HAVEN’T had much time to talk. And we don’t really know each other.
      So we are using one of the 4 attractive vibes: demonstrating authority in her world.

      2. When we say, “if you’re not with someone who is with you in the way you TRULY want them to be” we are:

      A. Demonstrating we understand the world of women and how they are constantly comparing their current guy to their ideal and also the social pressure women face to “find the one”.

      B. TRULY requires she search deep into her mind where she keeps her most precious hopes and fantasies. So it’s sending her on a deep unconscious search that will likely go on for quite some time after the conversation.

      C. We are IMPLYING, without stating it, that perhaps WE are the one with whom she will discover her desire to “truly want to be”. We didn’t say it. We imply, it.

      D. The entire unique way of saying all this sets us apart.

      Not bad for a few sentences..

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    The Bush With Legs November 11, 2011, 1:33 pm

    …Know…It Is Good…

    Holding the hand up (To Me) Also seems like so many other things aswel … “On top” of what you just said … Dominance and also flowing out of that is innocence, honesty and knowledge of her world plus when she is ruminating on it later she’ll remember it as a hypnotic visualisation… …It definately has Legs

    However,..I want to get off that by asking a question…Would this work in a text or Facebook message to someone?

    The Bush With Legs…and paws ..and furry little ears…

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    The Bush With Legs November 11, 2011, 2:11 pm

    ..ELLO… Again,

    I recently and artistically designed “The best pattern in the World”…However, I conveniently left out the word “Truly”…Truly , Truly… That’s truly going in the diary too..

    I will use your above video clip, word for word, on tomorrow morning and all day..
    e.g.
    HB: “I have a borefriend”

    “I know you 5 minits…and your already telling me your problems…ok, I can see your busy, and I need to get going too, …If he’s not with you, in the way you, ..Truly…Want him to be ,…Maybe we owe it to ourselves to talk”

    Givin It ROCK ALL…I love It…

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    Dan November 11, 2011, 3:24 pm

    Ross, I understand the words and the meanings. Zarathud had it all wrong but thought he was smart. Bush with legs had to say obvious twice but it wasn’t very obvious to him either. What I am reading between your lines is to hold my hand up in a stop pattern, palm forward with vertical fingers which OBVIOUSLY eluded the other Spocks. Some people think they know a lot. The rest of us ask pertinent questions of the guru.

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    Justin November 11, 2011, 3:34 pm

    Ross, thanks I was looking for a way to help with setting up a next meeting as sometimes I only get to chat breifly between clases. I am going to try this out and see how it works.

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    rUS Bond November 11, 2011, 4:16 pm

    The Bush With Legs….You are sooo Coool… (Not RJ Cool Yet Though)

    Exactly…There are no questions…Just do it…(Word 4 word) (Hand Gesture) ..(Certainly NOT Like Doctor Spock Though)

    But …Guys… This is like dinamite……isn’t it? …Your interfering with the boyfriends life too….I’m all for it …But your playing with fire….Let HER make the decisions…For F….s Sake ….Think….

    rUS Bond

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    rUK November 11, 2011, 5:07 pm

    RJ…

    BLAST OUT…

    12Months ago I was a dribbling wreck…

    I’ve spent minimal money on your products….Put the work in… Laughed…

    Cried…

    Shit my pants…

    Today… I am a Man.. That has approached 1000 women or more …And can choose.. Even when they offer …Your a lucky human bieng to be reading this…

    TTFN

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    Ram November 12, 2011, 12:13 pm

    Ross,
    You seen to be changing the world for better…one word or one paragraph at a time! I will use this 3 times over next 7 days and report it back!
    Ram

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    A M November 12, 2011, 2:06 pm

    yep, yep, yep… could you please obsessively think to me later? In case you’d better ask my phone number…

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    Newbie November 16, 2011, 10:36 pm

    “This is Gold…Jerry…Gold!” 🙂

    ::Line from Seinfeld::

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    John McLean November 18, 2011, 7:46 pm

    This video is just another example of the fact that Ross’ FREE material–the stuff he just gives away on his site–is vastly superior to the hyper-expensive techniques “taught” by the self-proclaimed Master PUAs!

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    double t November 24, 2011, 4:40 pm

    Aaargh!!! I so needed this last night. I had a beautiful sarge going on, when asked the vacation question she suggested Fiji so we could lie naked on the beach, liked the idea of going down in the water slowly so we could enjoy it, and liked being on top as well. Then some bitch assaulted her girlfriend, and she left, but not before saying good bye to me. I so had time for that close. double t

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