Dear Seeker of Success,
Listen: the one question I get more often than any other is: “how important are my looks in getting women to want to jump me?”
Can you get women if you’re bald, old, out of shape or ugly?
What if you’re not 55, live 5 blocks from the Pacific ocean, tall, skinny, have two purr-suasive cats and drive a sleek Saab?
Huh?
Then what?
Here’s the answer and it’s fantastically great news:
Women Don’t See Men “Objectively”. They See Us THROUGH
The Filter Of Feelings They Have For Us
Look: I’m sure you’ve met a woman who is dating a complete jerk, but despite her friends pointing out the flaws of her loser lover, she still sees him as the most attractive guy in the world.
Or, you are a looker and have it goin’ on…. yet this borefriend of her looks like, and seems less exciting than, the Banjo Boy from Deliverance.
WTF does she see in him?
Well, it’s not that “love is blind”.
It’s that women’s feeling filters are very, very rigid.
And once they start looking at a guy through the filters of love, lust, desire and need….
The Guy Could Look Like An Inbred Toad
And Still Get Her Pussy Dripping Wet!
I’m not suggesting you’re a toad.
Hell, as far as looks, who am I to judge?
(The pic of me to the right was taken in a pizza joint here in Marina del Rey just this past December. This is how I look right now.)
I’m just explaining how women work and letting you know how easy it can be to release your fears and get excited about the hot and amazing women who are just waiting and wide-open for you.
Once she gets it in her head that you’re Prince Fucking Charming, you’ll actually have to work hard to dispel that notion.
That’s what it means when a chick is “hooked” on a guy.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. The key, of course, is to show her you’re “Prince Fucking Charming” through a potent blend of showing up attractive and claiming your sexual aggression mastery – two core lessons we teach inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
Yes this is so true. I come across some friends and they say this defeatist crap about “it’s all about looks”, yet I can walk down any popular bar street and see a few guys who are average looking who are with stunners. You mention this I think on DC 2000, about “categories are rigid”
speaking o f stunners, did you sarge Anna Kristina Anderson .? I went to your facebook page and noticed that delightful Nordic stunner. BTW is it possible to sign up for friend status on your page?
Ross u look younger than a 55 yr old in that pic……..yeh I know !