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    Carlos March 1, 2011, 11:16 am

    Thanks Ross for this awesome post! It cleared up quite a few things because the last time I tried running a pattern on a girl I met at a dance club, she was a 35 y/o sexy cougar. I tried the “feel attracted” pattern and after a moment she left to go to the bathroom later on I heard from her friend that I scared her somehow, (this is not the first time this happens) I was slightly with a “wtf” look on my face cuz these girls were really diggin us So I assumed I might have leaned on it a bit too hard. But now that you say, they may have been responding strongly to the pattern, it makes a little bit more sense.

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    SuperBowel March 1, 2011, 12:16 pm

    ?”But let’s say she IS resisting a bit. Remember this: resistance is just a sign she is responding strongly to what you are offering and is scared of how strongly she is responding.”

    And she may respond two months later when you see her again, which has happened to me.

    “In that case, simply change the subject. If you are describing an incredible connection, and you see she is in to it, but suddenly she does a 180 and looks a bit uncomfortable, BACK OFF.’

    Happned once with a married lady….was smiling at me prior then I used IC..she went completely cold, unresponsive and could not get her back again

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    Mazen Sayed March 1, 2011, 6:00 pm

    that was really so helpful Ross but you said (Remember, it is the meaning and interpretation you give things, along with how you direct your body’s energetic flow that determines what will happen)
    So how technically can you direct your Body’s Energetic flow
    Or what do you mean exactly by this

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      rom October 29, 2013, 1:25 pm

      yes – energy flow within and then out of the body to someone else ….these two topics are the main subject and critical

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    John Lavi March 1, 2011, 6:38 pm

    Hi RJ,
    Thanks for the blog, it’s useful .

    I recently purchased your Speedseduction 3, and so far I love this stuff, I have also done an NLP practitioner level last year and it all makes sense to me.

    my question is what is the best way to go about the material, what I mean is, the most effective way ? best practices etc …

    BTW what will be the added value to see you live in a weekend seminar?

    Kindly,
    John Lavi

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    Bullet March 2, 2011, 12:06 am

    Hi Ross

    In a nutshell (no puns intended) what you advocating is,
    Irrespective of the actual X experience, it’s the meaning “I CHOOSE”
    to make out of that x experience which decide whether I’m successful or not. In other words, if she pours her drink over my head in front of all her friends(by the way true story),Instead me, focusing on humiliation & pain that goes with it and blaming seduction patterns or myself for the undesired result. I could choose to see it as sign of disgust on herself for being so easy. Am I with you or lost again.

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      spitfire October 30, 2013, 8:25 am

      It’s more of a sign of someone who you don’t want to be dealing with and use that experience to add to your intuition that you are building. Usually things like that don’t happen so when they do size up the situation and use it for more power of the person who you are every day more and more becoming. I’m sure Ross would agree. In a better explained way.

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    Oldpuller March 2, 2011, 1:46 am

    My mind tends to wander, both during pick up and during life in general. How can I learn to become more “present” or “in the moment”?

  • […] I’ve said before, on more than one occasion in fact, one of the lessons I teach is that you use the information, vibe, and feedback a woman gives you to craft your patterning and banter to connect YOU with her erotic desires, wants and […]

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    z23 October 30, 2013, 2:03 am

    What you said about “self control” is so much more than it seems. You had a lady guest appear in one of your seminars who mentioned “Self Emanation.” That really stood out to me as an interesting way of thinking about it.

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    Squishy October 30, 2013, 1:56 pm

    RJ,

    Do you believe it could be a possibility that you get some women who are genuinely ‘immune’ to patterns or being sarged in general? Are there a select few who can never be turned?

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    Stephan October 30, 2013, 2:52 pm

    Does “I decide where my energy goes” mean: I decide how to interprete the situation? If not, what eles does it mean?

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