Republished July 29, 2017 at the request of the Brain Dump Webinar attendees.
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Dear Seeker of Success,
Here’s a question I’ve been asked many times: “How does one become truly valuable to a woman?”
Uh.
Valuable?
Listen: I’ve always hated this “value” bullshit.
“Valuable” as defined by whom?
Measured by what units?
How many X into Y do we count until we achieve a “valuable”?
And, I think it’s an incorrect – or less than optimally useful way – to phrase it.
Now, if you instead ask, “how can I get maximum connection, respect and sexual fulfillment from MY women who please, satisfy, and delight me on MY terms, every day?” then that’s a question where you can measure results.
Up Until Now…
…even some of the women that have become attracted to you, have been taking that attraction and go on with their lives, without you coming along for the carnal roller-coaster ride with all its ups and downs… and ups… and downs?
That happens.
It’s life.
Maybe you ought to be doing the same thing with THEM.
Now, to be sure, there are Speed Seduction® language patterns that can encourage / evoke / elicit those desires in women for a more permanent connection.
(I invite the senior students here to jump in and describe those and how they’ve worked for you, in the Comments section below.)
And there are those language patterns that trigger more short-term sexual excitement… that you can of course anchor and fire off at will.
That power. That choice.
Now THAT is valuable – for both you and your women.
Peace,
RJ
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The big truth is that women’s unconscious wants to feel a deep connection, it’s their check to screen the seducers. They like challenges, examinations and all those stuffs that imply a long term committment.
Also you can’t install right away the “comfort” of a committment not because the “case would be solved” or “the friend zone” or the next bs, imo because they must feel that he is the special-one, to avoid the needy, low value partner.
So if we aren’t like monkeys, the women’s unconscious has some role… Material taken only listening to women and why they are flaking or screening, ask trusting women why they flake and let me know if you get different answers.
Social value is closely related to attraction (desire to invest and wanting to be seduced), it’s the heat that gas need to ignite; but with enough emotional pressure it can explode with better results in a cool environment…
My sarge suggests that it makes sense eliciting ends values from social values to get *social rapport* or trancewords.
Can you imagine that feeling, like when you are alone with your favourite rock star (intermediate/social value of being popular), you know that… pffff, excitement and….
Key point: women have feelings ABOUT their feelings and emotions ABOUT their emotions.
this dinner during the meeting i used the rose pattern, two incridible connection pattern´s, one atraction pattern, the twin brother´s, the values elicitiaon, the love versus atraction, the blamo pattern, the visual pattern and i thought to myself i´m tired this it´s getting late it´s better call it a night. so i told her that i´m tired and a need it to wake up soon i took her home and i was going to leave until she told-me touch, i got suprised because i thought nothing was working, after that she told me to kiss her to my wonderfull suprised and i went for the kiss while i was saying at the same time the ” I Want YOU” pattern. Now she is saying that she never met a man like me and i´m to magicaly to be true. I still have the message to cheerish the unbeliveble power it gave me. I´m amazed the pattern´s realy work even if it have a delayed efect.
That’s true. This is why I cannot answer a question like “which order should you do the patterns in?”
EVERY situation with EVERY woman is different. EVERY woman will react differently to the same things.
You’re one of many students who have found themselves thinking the patterns weren’t working…and then BAM! MATTRESS MACARENA!
“HOW TO BECOME VALUABLE TO WOMEN”
Personally, I think, after you’ve become an advance student, to become valuable is to simply go back to basics and set asides patterns and how to’s’ and learn to just simply be human.
Meaning: keep living your life, follow through with your promises to her and show congruence. If she does something you don’t like, speak up about it without having to dump her [which most advance students do]. Let her know how you feel but at the same time, mention you care about her otherwise, you wouldn’t have brought the subject up. and be gone from her life for a while.
Lastly, If she has something that she’s passionate about, learn about it and participate in it – show knowledge thus at the same time, offer challenges, give an take away and again, disappear from her life to recharge your batteries while she would feel compelled to chase you.
PS: hope my thoughts are in line with this post and forgive any typos … it’s pass my bedtime and my melatonin is kicking in 🙂
This is all very good, and brings up the important point that the Sargy mindset DOES extend to the day-to-day. It’s about becoming that which you wish to present to the world.
Maybe you can begin to redirect the question to yourself, just briefly, and ask ”how much value do I give? To women, yourself and all areas of all your choices in life.
Because value really means true power and choice. And with great power, comes great responsibility. So be very careful how you use these tools.
I have found,up until now, the emotions we can regularly evoke with women were hard to break. , now, I have a lot of practice with women and I can also evoke disgust. ..if I choose to.
…now that surprises you doesn’t it.
…Doesn’t IT.
Either way, be careful what you wish for, with the correct tools, you will get it. Good and proper.
Words have a power to elicit pretty much anything you want. Must be used strategically.