Dear Seeker of Success,
NOT using the language patterns, techniques, and skills of Speed Seduction® is an insult to good women everywhere.
That said, a number of students I’ve spoken with 1:1 feel the patterns don’t reflect your own experiences.
“How can I talk about the Discovery Channel if I don’t even have cable?”
“I don’t know any twin brothers.”
“If I talk about incredible connection yet I’ve never felt it, it’s sort of dishonest in the sense of not being authentic.”
Look: I get it. Now get this:
To Become Skilled At Speed Seduction® You Must
Learn To Increase Your Emotional Range
If you’re going to talk about connections, you yourself have to experience at least in your imagination what it’s like to feel connected with people.
Everyone has experienced some kind of connection with someone.
You have to actually begin to access your own feel or emotion to be able to at least talk about the patterns from a felt sense of having experienced it.
I also want you to understand that
You Can Use Little Pieces Of Patterns
(And Even Make Your Own)
Not comfortable with memorized patterns? Bring up themes. Get women talking about the themes. Within those themes, just try to get in a few suggestions.
That’s very easy and simple to do. Just look around. What do you have going on in your life?
Then continue to develop and hone your skills.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. There’s a huge archive of material for you in the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection video modules (over 175 of them).
They’re arranged by subject. You can see the title. Whatever you need to learn, Inner Game, walk-ups, patterns, jokes or quizzes, it’s all there for you. You’ll even find Sarge critiques.
