Dear Seeker of Success,
In an earlier post, we saw how many guys are less afraid of an armed mugger planning to steal a woman’s purse, than they are of the woman herself.
Let me ask you something else.
What was that beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous girl wearing the day she was born? What were YOU wearing when you were born?
Answer to both: nothing. You were both naked as a blade of grass.
Now, let’s delve deeper.
Is she subject to the same atmospheric pressure as you, or is it different because she’s female?
If you dropped her from a building, would she fall at the same speed as you do, 32 feet per second per second? Is that the acceleration, or would gravity treat her differently?
The way she metabolizes energy, does she use oxygen and carbon or is she a silicon-based life form?
Something’s Going To Happen,
One Of These Days
And, I guarantee is going to happen to her, you and everybody. Can you tell me what that is?
You guessed it: she’s going to die. And so are you.
Hopefully not for a long, long, LONG time, but it’s inevitable. (Unless you have the secret recipe to immortality. In which case, contact my office, let’s work out a deal.)
If you think about it, she’s pretty much in the same situation you are in most respects. Wouldn’t you say?
From that respect, it’s a little bit hard to be afraid of someone who you realize, on some deep level, is in the same condition you are.
Let Me Put It You Another Way
Saying “I’m going to go out and talk to pretty girls” is a setup for failure.
Would it be more useful for you to say, “I’m going to go out and be friendly with everybody I meet and do what I can to make everybody feel just a little bit better about themselves”?
Would meeting women naturally flow out from there?
Peace,
RJ
P.S. With this understanding, do you find yourself ready to claim your success, with your women, who you truly want and desire?
