Dear Seeker of Success,
Today, I am pretty tired.
I’m not only tired but I look pretty unkempt: haven’t shaved, combed my hair, and am wearing sweats and sandals.
You know what that means, dontcha?
Perfect Time To Pick Up Women!
So earlier today, I’m in the Walgreen’s, and I had an opportunity to demonstrate to myself a great pick-up principle that I regularly teach.
What is that principle?
Simply this: no matter what you say, at first, to meet a woman, you can still use it to get her open and willing to talk to you and meet you, even if what you say comes off as cheesy, stupid and dumb.
Case in point: at the Walgreen’s, I’m in line, and this lovely lady who looked like a ballet dancer or yoga teacher gets in line next to me.
I say to her, “Do you do yoga?”
She very neutrally says, “no”.
“Dance?” I ask.
“No”, she says.
I look at her and say, “Ok, I’m returning that “How To Pick Up Girls in Line At Walgreen’s” book because it isn’t working.”
She laughs at that point, so I say, “Now, I’m glad you laughed because I wanted to check out your sense of humor before I introduced myself. I’m Ross”.
She says, “I have a boyfriend.”
My reply?
“No offense, but just because I’m talking to a girl doesn’t necessarily mean I want to date her, but I admire your confidence.”
She laughs again, “Seriously” she says. “I really am in love with him but you are the most confident and original guy I’ve met in a long time. I really hope you find someone amazing to match you.”
Well, how about that…
…SHE Was Speed Seducing ME!
Now, I did not get a number or another meeting with this girl, but that isn’t my point.
The point is, what I originally used to try to meet her FELL FLAT AS A STONE.
That didn’t stop me.
I simply used it and used her responses to poke fun at myself, relieve the tension, and get her much more open to talking.
Also notice that when she said, “I have a boyfriend” I turned it around on her and played with HER assumption that I was ready to go out with her.
This is all an illustration of one of my key principles: whatever response she gives you is the right response, if you know what to do with it and can keep your state calm and steady.
Peace,
RJ
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great article Ross, your NLP tactics are gold
Thank you Matrix!