Dear Seeker of Success,
How often has a woman said “call me this weekend and we’ll see?” How vague!
(And if you play into it, you lose.)
Recently, a student asked me whether he should “strike while the iron is hot” or wait until Saturday.
First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: never call Saturday.
It means she has you following her directions, almost like she’s thinking, “Let’s see if this guy follows my direction and is predictable.”
Don’t be predictable – and don’t rush it.
Now, this New Code for calling her may blow your mind (and hers):
Don’t Call This Weekend At All…
Wait Until Tuesday To Call Her!
Call her on, say, Tuesday and tell her this:
Hey. This is Dick Dickerson. (Insert your own name of course.) Sorry I didn’t get back to you this past weekend. I had some stuff come up that I couldn’t resist doing, but why don’t we see if we can bang our schedules together and come up with some time that we can enjoy.
Get it?
Here’s the concept:
- She said she’s busy this week but to call her this weekend. If you do, it shows her you’re holding up everything to plan your weekend around her (aka: desperate supplication).
- Therefore, if you call her this weekend, in effect you’re saying, “I put my weekend plans on hold for you because I think you’re so important. You’re the only choice I have.”
She said, “Call me this weekend,” which is no guarantee either. [It’s not like she said “I’m really busy this week but I totally want to see you. Can we make plans for the weekend?”, which would be a different story.]
By Waiting, You Come Back
Unpredictable – And Turn Around
The Frame
When you call her on Tuesday and say, “Hey. Sorry I didn’t get back to you this weekend. I had a few things come up that I couldn’t resist,” yhat you’re implying is you were busy and having fun.
Since you didn’t call her that weekend, she’s going to be wondering if maybe you’re not that into her and what you’re doing. Now, she’s going to want to explore.
(How about THAT for a shift!)
Peace,
RJ
P.S. The New Code is an entirely new set of algorithms – fundamental principles and deep insights into the operating system of how all people (men AND women)…
….create their sense of what’s possible, what they can do, and what they desire in their world.
Don’t wait until the weekend, or until next Tuesday – this, you want to jump on now!
