Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
Ever get the feeling that a woman is yanking your chain, just to demonstrate she can?
Like, one minute she’s hot, bothered, and just waiting for you to pick her up and take her to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle. The next, she’s cold, aloof, and giving you one-word answers while looking away from you. Enough to make you ask…
…What GIVES?
Is she wishy-washy? Is she confused? Is she just a tease who gets off on the attention of men? Does she like screwing men?
The First Question I Would Ask
In your Sarge, are you moderating, controlling, refining your immediate, urgent, hungry male desire to PENETRATE NOW?
Women sometimes seem to go “back and forth” as a control/safety issue. They get excited, then they catch themselves and think “Oooh, this feels too good. Better slow myself down.” They are not really trying to control you, but themselves. The trick is: the control part LOOKS like the same signals women give us when they are genuinely un-interested!
I think women usually (usually) are NOT consciously trying to manipulate us. It is mostly an attempt to gain a measure of self-control and/or a means of exciting themselves by SELF-FRACTIONATING.
Yes, women get MORE excited if they pull back and then reinvest in the excitement. If we fractionate them, they will feel that excitement and also safety and they won’t have to do it for us.
There are a few basic things that set up and create willingness for seduction/trance etc. These factors make any patterning you do much more readily received, and these are factors you generally CAN control:
- Fractionating and pattern interrupting.
- Demonstrating authority in their world
- Given them the feeling they are being screened
- Energetically moving among the vibes they find attractive: funny, showing authority in their world, being commanding and being sincere
- Non verbally/non locally setting up a psychic/energtic/magick link.
- Giving them a perceived self-image to live up to.
Armed with this knowledge, you can then re-channel her control/safety needs and help her Sarge her way right into your bed. That sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Hey Ross! great material as usual, but this time i’m not sure to understand properly fact #5. How can it be good? not to establish some sort of link?
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