Dear Seeker of Success,
As we move through our series on why confident men shut down around really hot women, so far we’ve explored how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, and the power of metaphors.
So far, so good!
Now I’m going to show you what’s going in her mind, and yours, and how to combine the two and gain the advantage.
The first thing I want to tell you is more pervasive than what we’ve covered thus far:
She May Not Think That She’s Hot, Attractive, Or Desirable
Even if she’s drop-dead gorgeous and makes your gonads go at warp speed, she may think she’s not good looking at all. I’ve seen this time and again.
Drop-dead beautiful women may have half a molecule of fat on their interior quadriceps, but they think they’re fat pigs.
They may have the tiniest little blemish behind one ear and think they’re monsters.
She may be a doctor or have an MBA, and have command of a robust avocabulary bigger than my schlong (and believe me when I tel you, that’s ROBUST and BIG), but think of herself as dumber than a bag of marbles.
So before you start putting her up on that generic pedestal, you may want to realize that’s not her view of herself. She may think that she rates as a slob or a horrible, ugly werewolf of a woman.
Therefore, if you put her on that pedestal, she may actually lose trust in you because she thinks you’re lying.
See?
Now, for her part:
Beautiful Women Put Men Into Altered States Of Consciousness
What is an altered state of consciousness? It’s a state of consciousness different from the one you normally go around in.
Doesn’t it make sense to design the altered state that serves us to get our outcome, rather than the altered state that’s our default altered state?
One of the keys to this is to forget that she has something you want. Otherwise, that’s going to take up real estate in your consciousness.
A big part of success in this is paying attention to what the Averaged Frustrated Chump (AFC) ignores, vs. ignoring what the AFC pays attention to.
The fact that she has something you want is not going to enter your consciousness. That’s something you’ll be putting aside.
Instead, you’ll just focus on how you can create the states in her that you want to create. You’ll focus on whatever information you can illicit or evoke from her that will let you get what you want.
Now, Let’s Put The Two Together
Forget about the fact that you think she’s hot.
Instead, put that aside and focus all your intention and attention on what she really has.
What is she offering? What can you evoke and elicit from her that will enable you to get what you want?
And, There’s More….
Next up: we explore the physiological and energetic aspects.
Sarge Large!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. I may be jumping the gun a bit here, but we’ll have completed this series long before the July 30th and 31st seminar in London.
By then, you’ll be ready to incorporate The Power of Sexual Sonics™ into this equation.
So claim your seat now, knowing that just having read this post, you’ve already put in some very amazing “pre-work” that will make your seminar experience that much more awesome!
